I slept with a bloke

recently, i went on holiday with a few mates, and their mate. their mate, bob, had a girlfriend, who was going to make her way down the next day because she needed to sort out childcare arrangements for her kids (from a previous relationship). now we all got drunk on the first night, as you do when youre on holiday, and bob, confided in me that after the holiday, he was going to break up with his girlfriend because she wasn't very nice and had cheated on him.
we all went back to the hotel room and played drinking games and truth or dare, until me and bob were the last two people up.
to cut a long story short, we ended up doing IT on the living room floor, afterwards, we both said we would not say a word to anyone, because it would just be awkward when his girlfriend turned up. we made it look like we'd passed out fully clothed in front of the TV. now the next day bobs girlfriend turned up and all was well, apart from the fact i felt like an utterly horrible person all weekend, as they cuddled up and even had to listen to them having rather loud sex on the last night of the holiday. i am under no illusions that im not a really disgusting person for doing it in the first place and cannot blame alcohol, because i still should have known better. but now, i just want to hear that they've broken up in a really horrible way and him to say sorry and come crawling into my arms weeping like a baby and for him to never see her again because it made me so jealous and upset. normal?

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Comments ( 9 )
  • Allistalla

    I can tell from bloke were you are from . I liked reading this .

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  • Noonesperfect

    you might have caught std's

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  • 343Boy

    She cheated on him, you were just karma.

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  • elkieyo

    I don't see why its not normal, though I wouldn't recommend doing it with him again unless he's single

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  • silly_person

    its normal. affection is normal. ^^

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  • pacman2323

    Your a whore its normal

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  • flabbysexy

    he broke up with her. fml

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  • Sarcasm70

    Of course it%%u2019s normal to feel that way. And when a guy tells you that he%%u2019s going to leave his girlfriend, that doesn%%u2019t make you a horrible person if you sleep with him.

    But, your bloke will probably never leave her. He may be an unfaithful boyfriend who lies about leaving his girlfriend to get attention from the girls. Besides, you had sex on a drunken night. It's not love. Don't wait for something that may never happen. You'll end up getting hurt.

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  • dancer

    do you think he was getting back at her by cheating on her the way she cheated on him?
    why would he decide to have a nice weekend with her and then break up with her?
    does he have your contact and has he been in touch?

    it's normal, but don't hook up with him again till he's single.

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