It's ok to say no. Just don't say yes and not keep your word. Sounds like you're stuck now. Do it and get it over with.
Female friend of mine, whom I did a good amount of favors for, promised to do something for me, and never did it, coming back and saying oh, I don't think it's right, etc. Mind you, she offered the favor to me, I didn't ask, but, since she offered, I said yes, go ahead. I was a bit upset that she went back on her word, as I did things and was there for her when her ex was in jail, when she had money and personal problems, tons of self-esteem issues..To have her go back on her word to me was upsetting. I'd rather she not have offered the favor at all.
I said yes to something and now I don't want to do it.
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It's ok to say no. Just don't say yes and not keep your word. Sounds like you're stuck now. Do it and get it over with.
Female friend of mine, whom I did a good amount of favors for, promised to do something for me, and never did it, coming back and saying oh, I don't think it's right, etc. Mind you, she offered the favor to me, I didn't ask, but, since she offered, I said yes, go ahead. I was a bit upset that she went back on her word, as I did things and was there for her when her ex was in jail, when she had money and personal problems, tons of self-esteem issues..To have her go back on her word to me was upsetting. I'd rather she not have offered the favor at all.