I recently threw my drink at my aunt who (i feel) deserved it..

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I hate my family. I have felt like they exclude me and gang up and bully me. I am a musician and I am currently in school. I focus a lot on my music. One day I was trying to talk to my mom about having a better relationship and talking more. My aunt (mom's half sister) kept butting in saying, "All you think of is yourself! Me! Me! Me!" and I kept asking her to stop and after 5 minutes of this, I finally threw my drink at her (blueberry smoothie) and I felt it was the only thing in that moment, which I could do to have her stop putting me down like that. I admit that I could have walked away, but I just felt I needed to explode like that. My mom and aunt are Chinese and very "hold their cool/calm facade." I happen to be the emotional expressive one. And losing it has made it seem like they are all against me. I have give $40 to my aunt for her shirt I ruined, and wrote her a letter, but I really just need to move out, but I have 5 more months of school left.

Is this normal to hate your family so much ? I really wish my aunt would die very often. Sad but its true and I feel so much anger towards her.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    very normal and 5 months will fly by. most of use were in your shoes at some point. just be happy you are not white. its much worse as people are not reserved. in the withe family the aunt would have thrown the blueberry slushie on you . and made you pay for the couch she ruined.

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    • Dustyair
      6 years ago

      HAHAHA!!!!!

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    You don't say how old you are: the only time I threw food at a family member I was thirteen and therefore immature. If you're an adult you need to grow up.

    Wishing your aunt dead is another sign of your immaturity, as is trying to have a heart to heart conversation with your mother with anyone else around.

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  • jaystrong
    6 years ago

    Wow! So far 100% normal. Your Aunt should stay out of you and your Mom's persona matters. It's probably bad enough she talks shit behind your back and fills her head with her opinions.

    Treat your bitch aunt like you should to anyone who annoys the shit out of you ... like they don't exist. Don't give her the time of day. Ignore her and let her suck up to you. If she doesn't who the fuck cares.

    You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family.

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  • Purpledino13
    6 years ago

    I did this to my husband the other day only it was water.Childish, I know but I was really drunk and sick of listening to him complain about how I can't do anything right.

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  • Josephine_77
    6 years ago

    They have a Problem.
    The thing is they are allowing their personal issues get to the best of their ignorance and so they take it out on you. Have a private meeting with your family, and if they continue to put you down; it's obvious they Just don't care about you.

    It's not fair; What they are doing is unfair. Family is all about love, and enjoying the time you have with your family and making perfect memories together. But this is so far from perfect. Let them know how you feel, have them listen to you for a change. If they can't do that, then leave.

    Otherwise it will just become more and more toxic and at the end of the day; They are not real family if they are hurting you.

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