Well, Dahlia, first off, sometimes losing everything will allow you to build everything from scratch. First thing I'd do is forget about that person and relationship with them, it sounds unhealthy and seems to throw you off balance. Second, I'd try and find a new job, whatever job, ANY job that will pay bills for any housing you find. Then, take a deep breath and think about what you want, while at least supporting yourself. From the sounds of it you are in no position to think about what you want. Get your basic needs met (home + food) and only then question your choices, past and future. One step at a time!
I also worry about my child. I am in no position to take her, what you are saying makes absolute sense, I should have known that all along. I'm sure a normal person would have. I have a place to stay in the mean time...but its 1700 miles away from my baby if I choose to not go back and endure the abuse with him...what should I do in your opinion?
I really really don't know who I am...is this normal?
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Well, Dahlia, first off, sometimes losing everything will allow you to build everything from scratch. First thing I'd do is forget about that person and relationship with them, it sounds unhealthy and seems to throw you off balance. Second, I'd try and find a new job, whatever job, ANY job that will pay bills for any housing you find. Then, take a deep breath and think about what you want, while at least supporting yourself. From the sounds of it you are in no position to think about what you want. Get your basic needs met (home + food) and only then question your choices, past and future. One step at a time!
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I also worry about my child. I am in no position to take her, what you are saying makes absolute sense, I should have known that all along. I'm sure a normal person would have. I have a place to stay in the mean time...but its 1700 miles away from my baby if I choose to not go back and endure the abuse with him...what should I do in your opinion?