I hear you, Fair enough, but %40 turn off out of a possible %100 seems to me that she may have a small part of her that could be ever so slightly interested. she's not completely repulsed by him. I just feel too often now a days people expect the disney idea of love that they will know it right away, id argue it could be possible that her just giving him a chance on a few dates might not be the most terrible of things to do/try. I suppose it could just easily be a bad idea. hard to say without knowing enough detail. figured id bring the devils advocate to the table. Too often i've seen people pass up love for years just because they weren't completely sold or it felt weird at to think about cause they were close friends...only later they find each other again and realize it was love all along. I guess i generally side on the don't be afraid to try uncomfortable things cause its often where you unearth the deepest connections with people. But again ya maybe in this case she knows him more than we do and she %100 knows he's not for her.
I really like a guy as a friend but he's single and likes me?
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I hear you, Fair enough, but %40 turn off out of a possible %100 seems to me that she may have a small part of her that could be ever so slightly interested. she's not completely repulsed by him. I just feel too often now a days people expect the disney idea of love that they will know it right away, id argue it could be possible that her just giving him a chance on a few dates might not be the most terrible of things to do/try. I suppose it could just easily be a bad idea. hard to say without knowing enough detail. figured id bring the devils advocate to the table. Too often i've seen people pass up love for years just because they weren't completely sold or it felt weird at to think about cause they were close friends...only later they find each other again and realize it was love all along. I guess i generally side on the don't be afraid to try uncomfortable things cause its often where you unearth the deepest connections with people. But again ya maybe in this case she knows him more than we do and she %100 knows he's not for her.