I think you're trying to put words in OP's mouth there.
Not being turned off is not the equivalent of being turned on. Not being turned off is probably more like being in a neutral state of mind.
Regardless, I don't think OP or anyone who is the object of affections he, or she does not reciprocate ought to do anything to encourage unwanted attention.
Also you make a good point on the 1-10 scale....although I did say 1 = "no turn off" which i guess you right doesn't necessarily imply turn on, but then again... If you're having sex with "zero turn off" ....your probably turned on right? idk if there really is a neutral, if you're not turned off during sex you must be turned on...yes? idk lol
I hear you, Fair enough, but %40 turn off out of a possible %100 seems to me that she may have a small part of her that could be ever so slightly interested. she's not completely repulsed by him. I just feel too often now a days people expect the disney idea of love that they will know it right away, id argue it could be possible that her just giving him a chance on a few dates might not be the most terrible of things to do/try. I suppose it could just easily be a bad idea. hard to say without knowing enough detail. figured id bring the devils advocate to the table. Too often i've seen people pass up love for years just because they weren't completely sold or it felt weird at to think about cause they were close friends...only later they find each other again and realize it was love all along. I guess i generally side on the don't be afraid to try uncomfortable things cause its often where you unearth the deepest connections with people. But again ya maybe in this case she knows him more than we do and she %100 knows he's not for her.
I really like a guy as a friend but he's single and likes me?
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so you're 60% turned on by the idea of sex with him! I say Give the man a chance at a date! lol
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I think you're trying to put words in OP's mouth there.
Not being turned off is not the equivalent of being turned on. Not being turned off is probably more like being in a neutral state of mind.
Regardless, I don't think OP or anyone who is the object of affections he, or she does not reciprocate ought to do anything to encourage unwanted attention.
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Also was not "trying to" but i see what you mean now
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Dats more bettah. 😁
Also you make a good point on the 1-10 scale....although I did say 1 = "no turn off" which i guess you right doesn't necessarily imply turn on, but then again... If you're having sex with "zero turn off" ....your probably turned on right? idk if there really is a neutral, if you're not turned off during sex you must be turned on...yes? idk lol
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im grasping at sticks here..dont even bother responding to this one...i get what you mean....you are right my reversal into %60 turn on would be wrong
I hear you, Fair enough, but %40 turn off out of a possible %100 seems to me that she may have a small part of her that could be ever so slightly interested. she's not completely repulsed by him. I just feel too often now a days people expect the disney idea of love that they will know it right away, id argue it could be possible that her just giving him a chance on a few dates might not be the most terrible of things to do/try. I suppose it could just easily be a bad idea. hard to say without knowing enough detail. figured id bring the devils advocate to the table. Too often i've seen people pass up love for years just because they weren't completely sold or it felt weird at to think about cause they were close friends...only later they find each other again and realize it was love all along. I guess i generally side on the don't be afraid to try uncomfortable things cause its often where you unearth the deepest connections with people. But again ya maybe in this case she knows him more than we do and she %100 knows he's not for her.