Probably 50% or more of my laughter in social situations is pandering; it's not so much that I've genuinely had my funny bone tickled (ooh la la) but more that to NOT laugh would be socially awkward.
I also find I rarely laugh in private when watching comedy, even if I do find it 'funny'. It might entertain me and I might smile, but that amusement isn't typically expressed with laughter.
So based on that, I'd say it's normal - at least I can certainly relate. But social etiquette and the general maxims of conversation often insist upon you feigning laughter and enthusiasm at some point. For example, if a person you've just met tells you a joke with the clear expectation you'll be amused, it's polite to laugh a little. Keep in mind somebody at some point has probably politely laughed at one of your jokes, despite not genuinely finding it amusing.
The same applies to enthusiasm - it's polite if somebody is sharing a story with you that they are enthusiastic and excited about, you express some modicum of exuberance, even if it's playing a role. As I say, it's social etiquette, which can be a chore at times, but can also open the doors of opportunity.
I RARELY laugh
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Probably 50% or more of my laughter in social situations is pandering; it's not so much that I've genuinely had my funny bone tickled (ooh la la) but more that to NOT laugh would be socially awkward.
I also find I rarely laugh in private when watching comedy, even if I do find it 'funny'. It might entertain me and I might smile, but that amusement isn't typically expressed with laughter.
So based on that, I'd say it's normal - at least I can certainly relate. But social etiquette and the general maxims of conversation often insist upon you feigning laughter and enthusiasm at some point. For example, if a person you've just met tells you a joke with the clear expectation you'll be amused, it's polite to laugh a little. Keep in mind somebody at some point has probably politely laughed at one of your jokes, despite not genuinely finding it amusing.
The same applies to enthusiasm - it's polite if somebody is sharing a story with you that they are enthusiastic and excited about, you express some modicum of exuberance, even if it's playing a role. As I say, it's social etiquette, which can be a chore at times, but can also open the doors of opportunity.