That is of course incredibly embarrassing. But it's always a risk associated with anal play, which is why some people recommend using enemas or something similar to completely clean out the colon before engaging in anal activity. It reduces the chance of such an accident happening but it can't totally prevent it. Some of it is probably dependent on experience. But apart from that, compare your reaction to his. Your boyfriend obviously deeply loves, respects, and cares about you. You owe it to him to be honest with your feelings. Clearly it wasn't a desirable outcome but you didn't realistically have control over your bodily functions in this situation. I'm sure he will understand. It will be awkward to approach the subject or feel how you did around him before this incident, but you both have to be honest with each other and with yourselves.
I pooped the bed after anal sex
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That is of course incredibly embarrassing. But it's always a risk associated with anal play, which is why some people recommend using enemas or something similar to completely clean out the colon before engaging in anal activity. It reduces the chance of such an accident happening but it can't totally prevent it. Some of it is probably dependent on experience. But apart from that, compare your reaction to his. Your boyfriend obviously deeply loves, respects, and cares about you. You owe it to him to be honest with your feelings. Clearly it wasn't a desirable outcome but you didn't realistically have control over your bodily functions in this situation. I'm sure he will understand. It will be awkward to approach the subject or feel how you did around him before this incident, but you both have to be honest with each other and with yourselves.