Wow it is like my life story right there minus the Gay part.
I was in the same situation, when people realised I was trying to "converse" with the "loser". He was like an onion, you had to peel the layers he had built over the years, I was frustrated with his unwillingness to open up but as I got to know him I realised he isolated himself from the crap people threw at him.
I suddenly realised who were my true friends. Some people didn't want to associate with me any further because I was seen with this dude at school and eventually outside school.
The sad thing is that we assume the worse in people and people looked at this dude like he was the carrier of the plague. Now this is years back and our friendship has flourish. I consider him a good friend and one whom I would do it again.
What I learnt is that trust is a big thing for a person like him and to earn that trust, you have to understand why is he like this.
Just from what I know for sure (that he's treated badly at school) I do get why he is like this. I don't know if he's physically bullied or not, but I don't doubt it. If he is, that really doesn't help because I'm a lot bigger than he is. You're definitely right about the trust thing. I know he doesn't trust me, and while I don't blame him it's frustrating. I can't even seem to get him to talk to me for more than a couple of seconds. How do I get him to believe that I'm on his side when everyone else isn't?
I pity this guy but also really want to sleep with him. Is that sick?
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Wow it is like my life story right there minus the Gay part.
I was in the same situation, when people realised I was trying to "converse" with the "loser". He was like an onion, you had to peel the layers he had built over the years, I was frustrated with his unwillingness to open up but as I got to know him I realised he isolated himself from the crap people threw at him.
I suddenly realised who were my true friends. Some people didn't want to associate with me any further because I was seen with this dude at school and eventually outside school.
The sad thing is that we assume the worse in people and people looked at this dude like he was the carrier of the plague. Now this is years back and our friendship has flourish. I consider him a good friend and one whom I would do it again.
What I learnt is that trust is a big thing for a person like him and to earn that trust, you have to understand why is he like this.
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Yeah i agree.
Just from what I know for sure (that he's treated badly at school) I do get why he is like this. I don't know if he's physically bullied or not, but I don't doubt it. If he is, that really doesn't help because I'm a lot bigger than he is. You're definitely right about the trust thing. I know he doesn't trust me, and while I don't blame him it's frustrating. I can't even seem to get him to talk to me for more than a couple of seconds. How do I get him to believe that I'm on his side when everyone else isn't?
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im not sure maybe do stuff that he likes to do, but i wouldn't be thinking just because how they dress they are poor i sometimes dress as he does