I never want to have kids

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first off the whole idea of birth grosses me out i had to watch a video in health class and the image is forever burned in my head it's disgusting

secondly kids are too much work stress money and time

third pregnancy makes you fat

fourth discipline with children is a BIG thing because i wouldn't want to hit them but i don't want them to get away with stuff

fifth imagine when they become teens

sixth what about there choices they can grow up and do anything some peoples kids grow up to be killers how could you handle that or even worse prostitutes or hobos

seventh life insurance what if they die in some freak accident

children are a lot of work and i don't think i could handle that

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  • phuckejiu
    12 years ago

    Why would anyone want to have kids in the first place

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hahaha prostitutes and hobos are worse then killers?

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    I dont want them either. I agree with most all of your points, obviously everyone has different opinions on some of it. I just want to be able to come and go as I please. My b/f says that I will change my mind when I hit my 30's - we will see about that, I've been pretty stern on this since I was 10 year old. I'm 26 btw.
    The only thing that sucks is thinking when you get old....... but meh, Im betting my brother will have kids, and I'll just use them when/if I need a fix. Im too selfish for children.
    Children touch your stuff and they break your stuff.

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  • Lynxikat
    12 years ago

    That's totally cool that you don't want kids- I don't either.

    ...What I don't get is why adults keep pounding into our heads that "Oh, that'll change once you get older" or "Your parents thought the exact same thing"; is it really so bad that someone doesn't want to have kids? Why is that so hard to believe?

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  • catocato52028
    12 years ago

    Same here, I don't want or need kids.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    It's too late for me to change my mind but why don't other moms tell you the truth before we get pregnant?!

    You have obviously given this some thought whereas many 'youngsters' only think of having a baby - forgetting the little doll (that they think will sleep all the time and they can dress up) grows up into real adult people.

    The day after I gave birth, a midwife came into my room and said' "Welcome to the guilt trip!" I didn't understand, so she explained that every day from now in, everything is my fault! I would blame myself for every decision I make when he is a baby and when he can talk, he will blame me! 100% True!

    Boy, will I be glad when he moves out and I get my life back ;o)
    I love him to bits though.

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    The number one thing that i don't like about having a baby though would have to be lack of sleep and no free time! I haven't gotten a decent nights sleep since I gave birth, and its driving me nuts. My baby was a surprise, my birth control failed, i wasn't intending on having children till later in life

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  • ThatOneOtherPerson
    12 years ago

    I'm the same. I don't have any desire to have kids at all.

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    I'm 28 and the thought of having children has never crossed my mind. Guess it's up the individual though. I don't like children, I love my nieces and nephews, but the desire to have my own is non existent. Don't feel bad for not wanting to. I'm sure there are enough ppl willing to continue reproducing anyway.

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  • Dizzee
    12 years ago

    I'm the same, but I don't care if I get fatter or not. At least you KNOW you can't handle them instead of just having kids for the hell of it and thinking you can take care of it with ease. I'm not saying its the most difficult thing (however, I wouldn't know), but it pisses me off to see teens thinking they can handle it, then have their parents take care of it for them. I would rather wait until the time is right and when I know for sure I can handle it. However, I don't want to get pregnant, but I'll probably end up adopting.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      yea my sis had a baby at 16 and never got to finish school and had lots of health problems afterward her frikkin pelvis bone broke!!

      btw im the story writer

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      • Dizzee
        12 years ago

        I've seen so many teens that had kids in High School (and even Jr High), but the one that bothered me the most was my best friend. She was so happy all time and we were very close. She had a baby right when I moved (this was before high school, she must of been 14 or so). I told her if she didn't go to High School and finish it, I would go back over there and beat her butt. She dropped out, I was so ticked.
        Really sorry to hear about your sister though. It really sucks when people want to have kids at such an early age. It could really mess them up, but they rarely realize it until afterwards. I hope she gets better soon if she's not already doing better from the birth. And I wish her the best of luck with her baby and hope that he/she finishes High School. Also, I hope you finish High School as well, if you haven't already done so.
        (sorry for the long response)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Think about your parents, they probably thought the exact same thing.
    The best way to see if you want a child is to look at yourself and see if you would want a child going through the same as you easy or hard).

    If I have a child it will be to continue my bloodline.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yes but they can bring a lot of joy to you as well

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    • NocturnePonyFan
      11 years ago

      Not necessarily. Many times they bring nothing but pain and stress. Depends on the kid.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Youll grow up one day, immature teenage girl.

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    • NocturnePonyFan
      11 years ago

      Wow, that was rude. What's it to you if someone decides they don't want children? It's no problem to you.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Then don't have any.

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    your normal, but pregnancy does not always make you fat. i stayed slim though out my pregnancy, no stretch marks or saggy titties either. My vagina is still tight, the opening is a little wider than it used to be, but nothing drastic. You dont have to look when you give birth, but the feeling is gross, especially when the doc breaks your water and you feel water gushing out your vag, and its brownish and sticky. When the doctor sticks a pill up your anus to make you uterus contract is not very pleasant either. They had to cut my vagina open to make it wider because the babys head was to big and i could hear it tearing, then they had to sew it back up, yuk.

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    neither do I. Not only I don't wanna have kids, I happen to hate the existing ones around me as well. So, in my opinion childless world would be a better place.

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  • nAt2017
    11 years ago

    Hey, not my problem. I think that children are a blessing, but it's not like we're about to go extinct.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hi! Its better!If you dont want children just watch out during sex and have your mind clear!I am an adolescent and there are serious possibilities and evidences that I may be adopted..If so I know my birth mother..She is also my teacher..When I found the first evidence-paper that shows that I may be adopted I started thinking why my mother gave birth to me if she would give me.. Any way.. Now I see her face and its exactly the same as mine..Our characters are the same too..I don't know what to do..She has stolen my heart from the first day I saw her..She approached me and started talking to me and asking questions about me..I would not like other people being in my position..And I supposed that she also regretted about giving me away.. So I really advice you that if you dont want children just dont give birth to them!

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  • naz
    12 years ago

    If you are a good mother, your baby will be a good person.

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    So prostitutes are worst than killers?

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  • supaflyafro
    12 years ago

    amen to that asker

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  • Crazy_11
    12 years ago

    Raising a child is not an easy job…but I guess when u wud hold ur baby for the 1st time in ur arms u wud feel on top of the world n forget all ur worries n wud give ur best to make him a good human being. The future is not in ur hands completely.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      holding babies is weird for me it feels like im gonna snap them in two like as soon as i grab them there gonna be smushed tiny things are weird

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      • Crazy_11
        12 years ago

        Hi dear…I don’t know wht to say to dis…but wud jus tell u 1 thing dat in this world a woman is the strongest than any other. She has the capability to give life to another human. N I feel that every woman mus take it as an opportunity. It feels great..really…keep all wrong feelings aside coz life is too short…better not to regret later:)

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        • MahBoi24
          12 years ago

          It's better to not have any kids than to have them simply because "you're a woman and that's what women do." There wouldn't be so many abused children if people were able to stand up for themselves and say "I don't think I want any little brats". You can always adopt if you can't have kids and decide you want 'em...or freeze your eggs or something. There are always options. Kids can ruin peoples' lives if they don't want them. It's better to be safe than sorry...

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago

    you might change your mind one day if you meet the right person.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Human nature to make babies, you'll want some eventually.

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    • MahBoi24
      12 years ago

      Not necessarily true. I am 25 years old and have absolutely no interest in having children. They are too much work, and I am far too selfish. Some people just don't want children, and it's absolutely insane to make statements like "You'll want one eventually". Some people don't want any and they die without having ever wanted an offspring. And there is NOTHING wrong with that. To the OP, don't let these pro-breeding people make you think you're not normal, or you'll change your mind. Only you can decide what is right for you, and if you never want kids, more power to you!

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  • naz
    12 years ago

    That is true but dont you like the idea of having a little mini version of you in your life? Having kids is so worth it. It makes you appreciate the little things in life. And no matter what its just one more person that will love you and take care of you forever.

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    • MahBoi24
      12 years ago

      Again, not necessarily true. Kids grow up...and many times they will abandon you when you become elderly, and they will drop you off in a nursing home and let the staff worry about you. Having kids because you need someone to take care of you is a bullshit reason to have them. And kids are not the epitomy of unconditional love. Animals are. But people, no matter how good, have conditions when it comes to love. If you want someone to love you, adopt a kitty. All kids are are "gimme buy me take me or I'll hate you forever"

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