Maybe you're missing out and maybe you're not but the truth is there's nothing you can do now. I'm 44 years old and in a similar situation myself.
I was pregnant with my second ex husband and did lose it. There's nothing I can do about that now except pray, meditate and mourn on occasion. I'm not saying that a miracle can't happen in my life but I'm single, have no inclination towards adoption and that window keeps getting smaller and smaller.
My life isn't over and neither is yours. I live with depression anxiety a personality disorder and I started developing chronic pain issues 2 years ago. I tend to have a lot of anxiety around other women because of a certain "type" who makes a point of defining feminity by some domestic standard in which many of us do not fit whether by choice or circumstance. I'm making a conscious decision to understand these annoying types of females probably define themselves solely by their domestic role as mother and hausfrau. Their annoying, proud and boisterous proclamations are more about themselves than anyone else. Who knows, some of them might even be miserable and just trying to convince themselves that they're happy.
Hang in there, girl and don't let other people define you!
You might look into learning Reiki, a Japanese energy manipulation technique that can help you control pain. Look in the Yellow Pages, if you can find them, under Massage Therapy. Call them and verify that they practice Reiki; some of them practice Accupuncture as well. Both of those can help you.
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Maybe you're missing out and maybe you're not but the truth is there's nothing you can do now. I'm 44 years old and in a similar situation myself.
I was pregnant with my second ex husband and did lose it. There's nothing I can do about that now except pray, meditate and mourn on occasion. I'm not saying that a miracle can't happen in my life but I'm single, have no inclination towards adoption and that window keeps getting smaller and smaller.
My life isn't over and neither is yours. I live with depression anxiety a personality disorder and I started developing chronic pain issues 2 years ago. I tend to have a lot of anxiety around other women because of a certain "type" who makes a point of defining feminity by some domestic standard in which many of us do not fit whether by choice or circumstance. I'm making a conscious decision to understand these annoying types of females probably define themselves solely by their domestic role as mother and hausfrau. Their annoying, proud and boisterous proclamations are more about themselves than anyone else. Who knows, some of them might even be miserable and just trying to convince themselves that they're happy.
Hang in there, girl and don't let other people define you!
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You might look into learning Reiki, a Japanese energy manipulation technique that can help you control pain. Look in the Yellow Pages, if you can find them, under Massage Therapy. Call them and verify that they practice Reiki; some of them practice Accupuncture as well. Both of those can help you.
Please stay positive. God bless you!
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Thanks, PooPooFace.