Is it normal to like those things is the least of your worries. You are going outside of your marriage for what you need but aren't getting. I'm not going to scold you. But I am going to strongly suggest that you be straight up with your wife: That you desire being sucked and rimmed. And it's only fair to negotiate. If she won't budge, find out why. More than "I don't wanna." Work with her limitations. If it's disgusting to her, fill your hole with jelly or smg.
Still won't budge ? Tell her bluntly that if she won't at least try and work with your desires, you WILL go elsewhere to someone who will. She can't say she wasn't warned. But please do hear her out. It could be workable
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Is it normal to like those things is the least of your worries. You are going outside of your marriage for what you need but aren't getting. I'm not going to scold you. But I am going to strongly suggest that you be straight up with your wife: That you desire being sucked and rimmed. And it's only fair to negotiate. If she won't budge, find out why. More than "I don't wanna." Work with her limitations. If it's disgusting to her, fill your hole with jelly or smg.
Still won't budge ? Tell her bluntly that if she won't at least try and work with your desires, you WILL go elsewhere to someone who will. She can't say she wasn't warned. But please do hear her out. It could be workable