I never argue with my girlfriend

My Girl and I having been going out for two years now, and was wondering if it is normal to never have an agurment in a relationship. Becuase in this two years there has never been any argueing whatso ever. Is this normal or good for our relationship?

Is It Normal?
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  • It is a good thing if it is genuine & you actually settle conflicts, disagreements or misunderstandings amicably & peacefully.

    But if all you do is bury conflict, then someday the shit is really going to hit the fan big time!

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  • I don't think that's abnormal, but it is a little unusual. My boyfriend and I are on the other spectrum - we always argue. But it's because we love each other so much and feel so strongly about each other that we kind of overreact to each other. Do you think she or you could be keeping something bottled up? Like, if you're mad about something, but don't want to bring it up (and get in an argument), so you just keep it to yourself. That wouldn't be healthy, because over time it will just build up and create bigger problems. I also know that I never argue with people I don't care about - what would be the point? But as long as you both care about each other and are open with each other, then that's perfectly fine.

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  • Two years ok anyone can "know" someone for two years but how close are you?

    If you two are close and know each other very well and dont fight over stupid things,bless you two:)

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  • Sooner or later that will change get married u will c...

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  • I don't know if this is normal, but I don't think it's healthy. It's impossible that you don't a single difference that could cause an argument of some sort after all this time. A slight misunderstanding. It happens all the time, and the most likely explanation for you never arguing is that you don't really talk things over and get to the bottom of it.

    The only people I haven't argued with is those with whom I have a extremely superficial relationship.

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  • If you're mad and don't bring it up, you should so that you don't have to live like that and can be comfortable. But if you just agree on everything, wait a few more years and you could be ready for marraige.

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  • May sound like a good relationship but it's not. There's something not right if u haven't argued this whole time. I've read a lot of relationship books :)

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