I need to know how can i stop this
My father was never there for me growing up till recently when i turned 16 im 18 now. He always wants to know what I'm doing and where with who etc. He is always texting me saying he loves me and he would give his life for me. Yesterday he confessed that he dreams about everyday and he doesn't know what to do anymore he admits he's obsessed with me. It hurts me hearing that since I had a stepfather that had a obsession with me too. Idk whats happening I'm just scared and so hurt that I'm living through this again but this time with my father. It's not like I give them any reason to start feeling such way. I thought I had moved on with all this once my stepdad left but now my biological father is exactly the same. I was in depression for 2 years due to the chaos i would live with my stepfather and I'm scared I might fall back