I need sincere advice - I am jealous of married people.

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  • Well as far as I can tell... you pretty much answered you own question in that last paragraph. If you're a christian, then maybe the question is how strong is your faith? do you really belive that God has a plan for you, and that he knows what he's doing?

    Being satisfied with what you have is easier said than done, but remember that God can do all things. You should probably spend some time in prayer, and ask God to strengthen your faith, and teach to you to rely on Him rather than your own feelings.

    If you rush into things.. especially marriage, you'll make your life a lot harder than it's mean't to be. Marriage is great, but it's certainly not as easy as it looks. It takes a lot of work. Honestly, I think getting married too young is just what some christians do as the alternative to falling into sexual sin, but it's not really a good answer either. I admire than you want to abstain from sex until you are married, as a Christian, this is what you are called to do. But prepare yourself, because it's going to get a LOT harder to do in college. I know christians who live with regret now, because they didn't hold out until they were married. This is all the more reason to keep your faith in God.

    Being a young christian college guy myself, I can tell you you're not alone.

    hope that helps

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