Okay here is what I think...
First off, its okay if you dont want to get married right now. Im also twenty years old, I have been dating my bf for almost five years now and I am still not ready to get married. Im sure that no one is looking at you like you are the odd one out because you are not married. & I am also sure that not EVERYONE is married. It may seem that way but it may just be a coincidence.
I really cant comment on the sex before marriage thing and you being christian, because I do not study any religion. I do believe in God though, I just choose to keep an open mind and not label myself with one religion.
Plus its not that easy to just get married. You have to meet someone first that you think would be the one for you (which is HARD). It takes time to get to know someone and figure out their real self. My point is... you dont need to get married to fit in.. and if you do get married when your not ready it may make you more unhappy then you already are.
I need sincere advice - I am jealous of married people.
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Okay here is what I think...
First off, its okay if you dont want to get married right now. Im also twenty years old, I have been dating my bf for almost five years now and I am still not ready to get married. Im sure that no one is looking at you like you are the odd one out because you are not married. & I am also sure that not EVERYONE is married. It may seem that way but it may just be a coincidence.
I really cant comment on the sex before marriage thing and you being christian, because I do not study any religion. I do believe in God though, I just choose to keep an open mind and not label myself with one religion.
Plus its not that easy to just get married. You have to meet someone first that you think would be the one for you (which is HARD). It takes time to get to know someone and figure out their real self. My point is... you dont need to get married to fit in.. and if you do get married when your not ready it may make you more unhappy then you already are.
Hope this helps.