It's possible that he isn't ready for that type of deep commitment yet. You can either wait and be patient until he is or ask him about his feelings and where he thinks the relationship is going. 1 year isn't that long unless you're over 25 years old. I was with someone for 3 years before we moved in together. Sometimes guys can start out slow and try to limit the emotional side of a relationship. It takes patience to get further without messing anything up
I wish:( Sadly I am not. I took too long to figure things out and fix myself personally. It was definitely worth the chance to be with someone so special though. I'd do anything to have more time because it only got better and better. The first 2 years were very slow, not many dates. Mostly work and school stuff with close friendship. It definitely was not a few month fling then dump the person/move on to another
I had issues. Mostly social awkwardness and lack of understanding relationships in General. I was learning but not fast enough. I simply wasn't a suitable guy. All I knew how to do well was work hard, provide assistance, and pay all the bills. All the emotional/dating stuff I sucked at. I was a total idiot
I think she knows. She knew well enough at the time but just doesn't care anymore. It was too tiring and stressful for her I think. I don't blame her for wanting to be free. It's all my fault anyway. I still regret all it everyday but there isn't much I can do
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It's possible that he isn't ready for that type of deep commitment yet. You can either wait and be patient until he is or ask him about his feelings and where he thinks the relationship is going. 1 year isn't that long unless you're over 25 years old. I was with someone for 3 years before we moved in together. Sometimes guys can start out slow and try to limit the emotional side of a relationship. It takes patience to get further without messing anything up
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thank you so much , are you still with that person of 3 years?
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I wish:( Sadly I am not. I took too long to figure things out and fix myself personally. It was definitely worth the chance to be with someone so special though. I'd do anything to have more time because it only got better and better. The first 2 years were very slow, not many dates. Mostly work and school stuff with close friendship. It definitely was not a few month fling then dump the person/move on to another
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why did u guys break up
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I had issues. Mostly social awkwardness and lack of understanding relationships in General. I was learning but not fast enough. I simply wasn't a suitable guy. All I knew how to do well was work hard, provide assistance, and pay all the bills. All the emotional/dating stuff I sucked at. I was a total idiot
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why dont you tell her that and maybe she can understand
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I think she knows. She knew well enough at the time but just doesn't care anymore. It was too tiring and stressful for her I think. I don't blame her for wanting to be free. It's all my fault anyway. I still regret all it everyday but there isn't much I can do