maybe he is ashamed of his body, and doesn't want to show you because he is really shy?
And even if your in Austria you have a right to know if he even considers marriage or what his thought on children are. i think you shouldn't be shy to ask him what he wants in life, you are just nervous on scaring him away because you are so attatched.
whats troublesome is your lack of will to live if he leaves you, like what were you doing last year that is so bad to go back to?
i wasnt serious about suicide lol it was just like a metaphor , and what do you i should do ? like go up to him and ask him questions about sex and marriage ? i dont think its a good idea
well, girl i dont think any couple should feel awkward talking about their romantic actions, i think it is something you and him should be able to openly express.
If he is uncomfortable you should know, or if he is very religious you should know and he should know that your confused about his sexuality. he really could be gay, and just because hes homophobic and had two girlfriends doesn't prove anything. Im not trying to be rude, but it does happen so be prepared for that.
i think you need to address it, its quite odd that he hasn't shown any interest in sex. your very shy so i know it maybe hard but you have to be able to communicate with him if your relationship will ever work.
i suggest you just ask him "would you ever want to do more with me, then just kiss me?" straight up when you feel its the right moment, when your both alone and really enjoying each others company.
If you want a little confidence boost you can ask him to set up a date night at his apartment, for a lunch or dinner and movie on the couch. shower and dress very nicely (maybe bring a bottle of wine if you drink lol) and then slowly drop hints that you want to fool around-if you do. if it works out you will have a very fun night.
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maybe he is ashamed of his body, and doesn't want to show you because he is really shy?
And even if your in Austria you have a right to know if he even considers marriage or what his thought on children are. i think you shouldn't be shy to ask him what he wants in life, you are just nervous on scaring him away because you are so attatched.
whats troublesome is your lack of will to live if he leaves you, like what were you doing last year that is so bad to go back to?
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i wasnt serious about suicide lol it was just like a metaphor , and what do you i should do ? like go up to him and ask him questions about sex and marriage ? i dont think its a good idea
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well, girl i dont think any couple should feel awkward talking about their romantic actions, i think it is something you and him should be able to openly express.
If he is uncomfortable you should know, or if he is very religious you should know and he should know that your confused about his sexuality. he really could be gay, and just because hes homophobic and had two girlfriends doesn't prove anything. Im not trying to be rude, but it does happen so be prepared for that.
i think you need to address it, its quite odd that he hasn't shown any interest in sex. your very shy so i know it maybe hard but you have to be able to communicate with him if your relationship will ever work.
i suggest you just ask him "would you ever want to do more with me, then just kiss me?" straight up when you feel its the right moment, when your both alone and really enjoying each others company.
If you want a little confidence boost you can ask him to set up a date night at his apartment, for a lunch or dinner and movie on the couch. shower and dress very nicely (maybe bring a bottle of wine if you drink lol) and then slowly drop hints that you want to fool around-if you do. if it works out you will have a very fun night.