Seriously everything you say sounds very familiar. I believe that your boyfriend has gotten complacent with you and his surroundings. You say that things are better when he is with you and you guys have a healthy sexual relationship, but when he goes out with his friends it gets bad.
He is a different person when he is not with you. It sounds like he is more comfortable with his friends and has more fun with them. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, I'm just going with the info you gave me. I still think he cares about you, but his emotions are not sincere. I think he is just staying in this relationship because he's used to it.
You guys probably have the same routine every time you see each other. I don't think you should try and hold on to this relationship. It's detrimental to both of you be together if there is no communication and no happiness.
This is just my opinion and you don't have to listen to me. Every man is different and I could be wrong but one thing is clear, you are not happy and he is not happy. Both of you are just going through the motions.
You are reading my mind :( it is sad to admit it, but i still dont want to, not yet, i am not ready!! Thank you for your replies. It really helped me to think, I do see what you tell maybe true, but I'm just not ready to let go..sad but true
I need help to understand the status of my relationship ?
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Seriously everything you say sounds very familiar. I believe that your boyfriend has gotten complacent with you and his surroundings. You say that things are better when he is with you and you guys have a healthy sexual relationship, but when he goes out with his friends it gets bad.
He is a different person when he is not with you. It sounds like he is more comfortable with his friends and has more fun with them. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, I'm just going with the info you gave me. I still think he cares about you, but his emotions are not sincere. I think he is just staying in this relationship because he's used to it.
You guys probably have the same routine every time you see each other. I don't think you should try and hold on to this relationship. It's detrimental to both of you be together if there is no communication and no happiness.
This is just my opinion and you don't have to listen to me. Every man is different and I could be wrong but one thing is clear, you are not happy and he is not happy. Both of you are just going through the motions.
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You are reading my mind :( it is sad to admit it, but i still dont want to, not yet, i am not ready!! Thank you for your replies. It really helped me to think, I do see what you tell maybe true, but I'm just not ready to let go..sad but true