I agree 100% DO NOT MARRY HIM - everything will get much worse and if he doesn't want to hang out with you why on earth would he want to come home to you after work every night? And why would you want him to, when you can't even talk openly to him?
You may think it would be the end of the world if you split up but trust me it won't and at least it's on your terms. It is going to be much worse if he dumps you when you least expect it.
I think in the past year he has got cold feet about marrying you and doesn't want to say.
As for his violence - this too will escalate once he feels you are stuck with him.
I need help to understand the status of my relationship ?
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I agree 100% DO NOT MARRY HIM - everything will get much worse and if he doesn't want to hang out with you why on earth would he want to come home to you after work every night? And why would you want him to, when you can't even talk openly to him?
You may think it would be the end of the world if you split up but trust me it won't and at least it's on your terms. It is going to be much worse if he dumps you when you least expect it.
I think in the past year he has got cold feet about marrying you and doesn't want to say.
As for his violence - this too will escalate once he feels you are stuck with him.