I agree with the first two posts. This is perfectly normal.
Most girls will not verbally commit to a verbal request to have sex, even if they want that to happen. It is normal instead to do all this non-verbally, one step at a time. Moreover, your boyfriend needs to engage in enough foreplay to get you aroused.
It could also be that you consciously or unconsciously hold some religious belief that sex is "dirty" or "sinful" or otherwise improper. And, that makes you nervous.
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I agree with the first two posts. This is perfectly normal.
Most girls will not verbally commit to a verbal request to have sex, even if they want that to happen. It is normal instead to do all this non-verbally, one step at a time. Moreover, your boyfriend needs to engage in enough foreplay to get you aroused.
It could also be that you consciously or unconsciously hold some religious belief that sex is "dirty" or "sinful" or otherwise improper. And, that makes you nervous.