Absolutely normal, you just want to "be romantic" with him instead of just "doing it"..., tell him that if he wants to "do it" he has to "earn it", then he will become romantic and all will go downhill... good luck.
If I were you, I would NOT tell him that he has to "earn it." I'm a 30 year old guy and if a girl ever said that to me, I would feel like she doesn't appreciate me, and if it didn't end the relationship I would at least be very offended.
You want it to just "happen" and not feel like an obligation? Then you should initiate the encounter. If he's not spontaneous enough, YOU be spontaneous, and hope that it will rub off on him (tee hee).
You don't like him pulling your clothes off? PULL YOUR OWN CLOTHES OFF FIRST! Or do it right after a shower, which is much more hygienic anyway.
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Absolutely normal, you just want to "be romantic" with him instead of just "doing it"..., tell him that if he wants to "do it" he has to "earn it", then he will become romantic and all will go downhill... good luck.
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If I were you, I would NOT tell him that he has to "earn it." I'm a 30 year old guy and if a girl ever said that to me, I would feel like she doesn't appreciate me, and if it didn't end the relationship I would at least be very offended.
You want it to just "happen" and not feel like an obligation? Then you should initiate the encounter. If he's not spontaneous enough, YOU be spontaneous, and hope that it will rub off on him (tee hee).
You don't like him pulling your clothes off? PULL YOUR OWN CLOTHES OFF FIRST! Or do it right after a shower, which is much more hygienic anyway.