It's confusing because I would say he isn't interested but he wanted to add me on snapchat.. and he wanted to see more and the flirting well.. I'm shy and I kind of get it if I like someone I'm all nervous but with him I'm not because he isn't making the effort! I just feel annoying. But when we do talk he isn't blunt or anything. I should leave him a few days then maybe message him on the app again.
Yes do that! Just a few days you don't have to wait until he texts you.. but make him at least wait if he is. And after a while if it continues just like this i think you should just ask him about it i once did and it didn't turn out so bad i felt annoying while asking but the reply i got was relieving. And no matter how it turns out at least it will end your confusion, You'll either no know if he is annoyed (Which he really sounds like he isn't) or he'll know he can stop being shy and your relationship will move forward.
Okay :) I will try that thank you for your advice! It's so hard not to message but today I am not messaging unless he does! I also think he is self conscious. I don't understand why we would match and him flirt and ask for my app number then do this.. but if I like someone I sometimes find it hard to strike a conversation.
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It's confusing because I would say he isn't interested but he wanted to add me on snapchat.. and he wanted to see more and the flirting well.. I'm shy and I kind of get it if I like someone I'm all nervous but with him I'm not because he isn't making the effort! I just feel annoying. But when we do talk he isn't blunt or anything. I should leave him a few days then maybe message him on the app again.
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Yes do that! Just a few days you don't have to wait until he texts you.. but make him at least wait if he is. And after a while if it continues just like this i think you should just ask him about it i once did and it didn't turn out so bad i felt annoying while asking but the reply i got was relieving. And no matter how it turns out at least it will end your confusion, You'll either no know if he is annoyed (Which he really sounds like he isn't) or he'll know he can stop being shy and your relationship will move forward.
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Okay :) I will try that thank you for your advice! It's so hard not to message but today I am not messaging unless he does! I also think he is self conscious. I don't understand why we would match and him flirt and ask for my app number then do this.. but if I like someone I sometimes find it hard to strike a conversation.