You should wait to see if he starts anything you can't be the one always starting not matter how enthusiastic he sound when you do.Shy people like texting because its not very intimate and you can be yourself so if he was shy and interested he would want to talk. Trust me i know how much it sucks to wait for that text but if and when it comes you will be very happy and it'll be worth the wait knowing they want to talk to you. So my advice is to just wait and control yourself.
I can't control myself, I am extremely shy myself.. I know how it feels but I see him online on the app and I keep messaging him. It's so awful the way I'm feeling because deep down I think he isn't into me
I know how hard it is to stop yourself from sending that one little text all the time i go through it almost everyday myself! But just keep trying and wait as long as you can cause relationships just don't work like that it has to be a two way effort and you need to give yourself some worth at least in beginning.Being shy has nothing to do with sending a text especially if you text him all the time and show him that you wanna talk i am pretty sure he noticed it. So if he is intrested he'll text you just wait so you can know for sure.
If you still think he is too shy to text first then you can try dropping hints to about it to tell him he should text first. Like when you end the conversation say something like " I hope to hear from you soon" or anything like that or if it just gets too confusing and you feel comfortable with the conversation just go ahead and ask directly it might work everything out.
I am extremely shy but that would never effect me in a situation like this, If he is always the one texting first then yes his shyness might stop him but if you are always texting him then you obviously want to talk so there is nothing to be shy about.. It's a very lame excuse it doesn't go with your situation.
It's confusing because I would say he isn't interested but he wanted to add me on snapchat.. and he wanted to see more and the flirting well.. I'm shy and I kind of get it if I like someone I'm all nervous but with him I'm not because he isn't making the effort! I just feel annoying. But when we do talk he isn't blunt or anything. I should leave him a few days then maybe message him on the app again.
Yes do that! Just a few days you don't have to wait until he texts you.. but make him at least wait if he is. And after a while if it continues just like this i think you should just ask him about it i once did and it didn't turn out so bad i felt annoying while asking but the reply i got was relieving. And no matter how it turns out at least it will end your confusion, You'll either no know if he is annoyed (Which he really sounds like he isn't) or he'll know he can stop being shy and your relationship will move forward.
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You should wait to see if he starts anything you can't be the one always starting not matter how enthusiastic he sound when you do.Shy people like texting because its not very intimate and you can be yourself so if he was shy and interested he would want to talk. Trust me i know how much it sucks to wait for that text but if and when it comes you will be very happy and it'll be worth the wait knowing they want to talk to you. So my advice is to just wait and control yourself.
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I can't control myself, I am extremely shy myself.. I know how it feels but I see him online on the app and I keep messaging him. It's so awful the way I'm feeling because deep down I think he isn't into me
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I know how hard it is to stop yourself from sending that one little text all the time i go through it almost everyday myself! But just keep trying and wait as long as you can cause relationships just don't work like that it has to be a two way effort and you need to give yourself some worth at least in beginning.Being shy has nothing to do with sending a text especially if you text him all the time and show him that you wanna talk i am pretty sure he noticed it. So if he is intrested he'll text you just wait so you can know for sure.
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But he says he's extremely shy can you not tell? I know he won't text me
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If you still think he is too shy to text first then you can try dropping hints to about it to tell him he should text first. Like when you end the conversation say something like " I hope to hear from you soon" or anything like that or if it just gets too confusing and you feel comfortable with the conversation just go ahead and ask directly it might work everything out.
I am extremely shy but that would never effect me in a situation like this, If he is always the one texting first then yes his shyness might stop him but if you are always texting him then you obviously want to talk so there is nothing to be shy about.. It's a very lame excuse it doesn't go with your situation.
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It's confusing because I would say he isn't interested but he wanted to add me on snapchat.. and he wanted to see more and the flirting well.. I'm shy and I kind of get it if I like someone I'm all nervous but with him I'm not because he isn't making the effort! I just feel annoying. But when we do talk he isn't blunt or anything. I should leave him a few days then maybe message him on the app again.
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Yes do that! Just a few days you don't have to wait until he texts you.. but make him at least wait if he is. And after a while if it continues just like this i think you should just ask him about it i once did and it didn't turn out so bad i felt annoying while asking but the reply i got was relieving. And no matter how it turns out at least it will end your confusion, You'll either no know if he is annoyed (Which he really sounds like he isn't) or he'll know he can stop being shy and your relationship will move forward.