I need a woman

I just can't get a woman. Not for friendship, not for dating, not for conversation, can't even get women to smile. I feel so desolate, so isolated, life is empty. Emptiness is my life.

You're ugly. Stay away from me. 1
You deserve it, people like you are bad comedians. 2
Get out of your basement and get a job. Be miserable for a good reason. 16
Buy a pet goldfish. That's all the companionship you're capable of. 4
Other. 14
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Comments ( 45 )
  • jethro

    There are always hookers

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  • Indigo1

    it's a numbers game, put yourself out their to ALOT of people and let the rejection thicken the skin , and you'll soon enough find a woman, I'm sure of it.

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    • bigbudchonga

      I second this. It'll be painful, but it's how you pull unless you're God's gift to women.

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    • Indigo1

      also, while doing this focus on being clean and smelling nice

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      • I have always used unscented products. Can your recommend soap/cologne appropriate for guys?

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        • There’s this one cologne called “Gentlemen’s only”

          Best thing I’ve ever smelt in my life. Just a dab is all you need.

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          • curious-bunny

            That sounds tempting to smell

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            • It’s such an amazing scent 😫 Wish I had some right now. Pretty sure it can be found at Macy’s.

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            • McBean

              I have heard that women like the smell of cucumbers and licorice.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Just from the options you put up I can tell you have really low self-esteem bro.

    Confidence is the key. Bitches can smell desperation bro, you've got to go in their and fake confidence until you can make confidence.

    What's your situation bro? Are you at work or somet? Holla back at me and I'll see if we can work somet out to sort this.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Desperation smells bad.

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      • I gave up my desperation long ago. Now, I am mostly emotionally numb.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Sometimes I'm a little numb, but honestly it's more like bitter, and jaded. I'm a glass half empty type myself. Sometimes I wake up weird, and in a good mood, then I think the glass is half full.

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          • We all have our challenges. Someday, I will die. I will look back on my life of emptiness and not know what I could have done differently. Yes, I can pursue a meaningful career, but I know there is more, much much more that most people have.

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            • RoseIsabella

              I guess to each his own, because for me all of that love, sex and relationship stuff is overrated. If I could do it all over again I would forgo much of that stuff, except for perhaps a small fraction of it.

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  • JustinAnderson

    There are certain Dating tricks , talking methods , behavioral changes , Grooming tips chating ways, that you might dont know .

    Open youtube :- search for BASEDZUES . trust me , you wont regret it .

    🔥 I have 3-4 girls + married womens too JUST BECAUSE of his TEACHINGS ...
    just have a try and see his videos...

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    • Looks like BasedZeus is a useful collection of videos. I am skeptical of the "creating sexual tension" stuff because when I try to do this, I get labeled as a creep. But thank you. You have made the most useful comment so far.

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      • JustinAnderson

        Dude , initially :- i knowed nothing about How to get girls , and after getting , how to be good in bed and all this things . I only follow His steps .
        ( i am not his promoter , or not trying to grow his subscribers etx)
        If you dont wanna visit , dont open his channel ... its up to you 😉

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        • Yes. How to create sexual tension looks especially useful because it's where I need the most help. Thanks again.

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          • JustinAnderson

            You’re welcome buddy . Best of luck

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    • This comment makes me suspicious that you are him, or at least, doing paid advertisement for him.

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      • JustinAnderson

        😂 i dont have any time for all this sh*t . Make and post videos and grow subscribers. I have other stuff going in my life ..

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  • SmokeEverything

    You need to just talk to strangers. That's how you make friends.

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  • noooidea

    I think if you stop trying to befriend/date/talk to someone just because they're a woman, you'll find more success. Not a tremendous amount of information to go on here but in these cases I feel like it's usually a result of a man not seeing a women as just people. And women can definitely tell when you are treating them unequal to your male friends and no one likes that.

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  • No you don’t.

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  • McBean

    Despair is a hard thing to deal with. Join a health club and watch the girls.

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    • RoseIsabella

      No, some of us hate being gawked at in public.

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      • McBean

        I know. But, the OP actually needs to express his despair. Women are a lost cause for this guy.

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    • LloydAsher

      Or if you wanna be less creepy actually become healthier and become naturally more intesting to the opposite sex

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      • RoseIsabella

        Indeed.

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      • McBean

        That's why I suggested the health club.

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        • RoseIsabella

          ... but staring at chicks at the gym ain't cool, it's creepy, and unpleasant, which is the last thing this dude needs to be.

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          • McBean

            He's probably smart enough to know gawking is off-limits. The health club environment would be good because men and women are both in close proximity, but socializing isn't practical because everyone is out of breath. This guy needs to start feeling comfortable with women from more of a sisterly perspective. No expectations - proximity acceptance - minimal social interaction.

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  • RoseIsabella

    The thing is that you talk about women like they are things instead of people.

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    • "A heart is not judged by how much you love, but how much you are loved by others." Famous quote to the Tin Man, Wizard of Oz, circa 1939.

      He had the touch. A nice smile is all I ask.

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  • raisinbran

    Getting a job might help.

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  • LloydAsher

    You are not entitled to the time and compassion of others, you need to make your own time and see and expand your world into other people’s lives.

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    • They run away from me, despite my best efforts to share their interests.

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      • LloydAsher

        Become gay then. Idk how to help socialbility unless you work on it. It’s like the speechcraft skill in Skyrim the more you use it the better you are at utilizing it.

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  • brutus

    Its alright, i am alone in my fight too. We need to tough it out.

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    • OK

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