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I am unattractive and often the target of hostility. Nobody wants to talk to me. What should I do?
| Get counseling to help with total isolation. | 11 | |
| Use prostitutes. | 7 | |
| Try to make friends even though it is hard. | 26 | |
| Become an on-line animal. Social media and porn. | 3 | |
| Other, please comment. | 8 |
Plenty of unattractive people lead fulfilling lives, that's no reason to isolate yourself
Just because you're unattractive doesn't mean you can't do great and fun things and meet like minded people who would be your friends. If your personalities mach they wouldn't care about looks.
I got counseling for exactly the same thing. They tell you you will not live as long as most people, and that you are high risk for alcoholism, and car accidents. I other words, you're going to have a hard life. You have to be up to the task.
just because you think you're unattractive doesnt mean you cant get friends. plenty of "ugly" people have friends. It also doesn't mean that no one else cant think you're attractive, many ugly people find relationships.
lol. use prostitutes. nah strippers are better. this post is so silly, but i do believe that you look beautiful unless you treat people badly. so treat people right and if it is me in the past it is so funny to read it. it is early. i am not needing to read the comments, but i bet you all thought i was a guy. chill though, it is a normal bias.
Forget about the shallow ones, just try to be friends with people. You get a good crew together it won't matter if your first girlfriend was a weed wacker. People's preconceptions of beauty are as fickle and fleeting as the people themselves. You have as much right to be loved as anyone.
Although people judge mainly in appearance - if you have common interests, you're nice and approachable then it will be easier to make friends. You may feel like this is bullshit, but it's worked for me. You won't get anywhere if you don't try!
In life you must make your own luck and plan your own destiny. If you want to look beautiful you need to start by telling yourself you are beautiful. Then you have to prove it to yourself, so go shopping and buy yourself sexy lingerie to wear every day, get some new outfits, have your hair done, go for a makeover, practice in front of the mirror to learn to do your hair and makeup well, and love shoes, have lots of them, different hights, different styles, different colours, and handbags to match. If you want to be beautiful you need to think beautiful and you will be, but it must start from inside of you.
You are ugly if you have accepted that so nobody can help you on that matter & about that loneliness may be you should make fake friends or try to talk with the real ones
The people targeting you with hostility are deeply insecure, and trying to make themselves feel better by trying to make you feel worse. In many ways, we do live ina very superficial culture, however, some of the most successful people in the world could be classified as unattractive: Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, most of the Rockefellers to name a few. In fact, new studies show that "unattractive" people tend to be MORE successful:
https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/312363
Small, insecure people will often try to cut you down, but this has nothing to do with you. They're the ones with the problem. Hang in there, and don't be surprised when you meet someone who genuinely thinks you're the most attractive person in the world.
Mostly people think I am white trash because of crooked teeth and facial scars. Bill Gates, and Warren Buffett don't look like trash.
People think I am white trash because of crooked teeth and facial scars. My nose is also broken.
Invisiline (plastic braces) might be a few thousand and they have a payment plan, a nose job for a deviated septum might cost nothing if you have health insurance, and scarring can be reduced in a dozen ways - including over the counter stuff. It’s not out of reach if you want it.
Almost everyone is unattractive. There are only like 2% of people who look good.