I understand what this is like on an emotional and physical level. I was raised in an abusive home, it's a long story, but my mom was abusive to me physically and mentally. My first girlfriend also did this. I never even noticed the abuse and fighting with her until months after she broke up with me, and I miss it. Now when I think about her, or when I feel down, I will punch and bruise myself, or mentally abuse myself by looking through old pictures and such. I know this is not normal, but you are not alone. And things like this DO affect both sexes no matter what people say. Abuse is not just an issue for girls.
I miss the abuse?
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I understand what this is like on an emotional and physical level. I was raised in an abusive home, it's a long story, but my mom was abusive to me physically and mentally. My first girlfriend also did this. I never even noticed the abuse and fighting with her until months after she broke up with me, and I miss it. Now when I think about her, or when I feel down, I will punch and bruise myself, or mentally abuse myself by looking through old pictures and such. I know this is not normal, but you are not alone. And things like this DO affect both sexes no matter what people say. Abuse is not just an issue for girls.