I knew a girl that like to be abused to the point that her lover was forced to hit her or throw her down the stairs and she wasn't happy until bones were broken. If your liking it to this degree, it's a sickness and you need to seek help for it. You already know where it started; it's because you have been exposed to it that you assume its normal. I think this is why peeps hold first and young relationships so critical, because it could set you up for things you don't want to have to deal with the rest of your life. It's not normal. It's actually documented in PH textbooks that this usually surfaces with someone that is raised in an abusive home. I also had a GF that liked pain as well and she was the one that found this in a DR's office meeting. I don't think there is anything wrong with someone liking pain. It's just an issue of keeping it under control. A smack on the ass here or there, maybe pulling on your hair or a nibble here or there. Possibly being lightly whipped. But when things get more serious I would look at what your exposing yourself to. The good news is there are plenty of sex partners to cater any needs these days.
I miss the abuse?
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I knew a girl that like to be abused to the point that her lover was forced to hit her or throw her down the stairs and she wasn't happy until bones were broken. If your liking it to this degree, it's a sickness and you need to seek help for it. You already know where it started; it's because you have been exposed to it that you assume its normal. I think this is why peeps hold first and young relationships so critical, because it could set you up for things you don't want to have to deal with the rest of your life. It's not normal. It's actually documented in PH textbooks that this usually surfaces with someone that is raised in an abusive home. I also had a GF that liked pain as well and she was the one that found this in a DR's office meeting. I don't think there is anything wrong with someone liking pain. It's just an issue of keeping it under control. A smack on the ass here or there, maybe pulling on your hair or a nibble here or there. Possibly being lightly whipped. But when things get more serious I would look at what your exposing yourself to. The good news is there are plenty of sex partners to cater any needs these days.