I do this for people I'm not even going out with. People will almost always not live up to your expectations, but you can try and replace those stories with memories of things he has actually done. Idk, I;m always trying to solve problems, but thats what I try to do. Sometimes people who dont live up to my expectations romantically dissapoint me so much, but then they do cool things in persona dn I just think about that and it helps me to stop expecting so much out of them. Gotta remember that they have expectations for you as well, and thats another totally different type of paranoia...
I make up stories in my head... is that normal?
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I do this for people I'm not even going out with. People will almost always not live up to your expectations, but you can try and replace those stories with memories of things he has actually done. Idk, I;m always trying to solve problems, but thats what I try to do. Sometimes people who dont live up to my expectations romantically dissapoint me so much, but then they do cool things in persona dn I just think about that and it helps me to stop expecting so much out of them. Gotta remember that they have expectations for you as well, and thats another totally different type of paranoia...