I'm worried about everything

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But more importantly I'm really worried about finding someone and who I am as a person.
My sister is a party animal, stays at people's houses, has a lot of friends, in the complete opposite, I have been out drinking but I don't really like it much but I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 23 it's so embarrassing. I feel I should be more like my sister and everyone else but I'm not and I can't help it. I know my mum and dad worry about me and it makes me worry I hate feeling like I'm letting them down.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    I don't think your dad is crying over you not sleeping around like your sister is. But to get a boyfriend and be in a good relationship you need to do a few things.

    Get attractive, be feminine and charming, and most of all: get out of the house. Clubs and bars are terrible for finding decent folk for long-term relationships. Join intramural sports and clubs, find friends through friends, etc.

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  • KiwiWisdom
    6 years ago

    I am an expert at worrying and I can tell you after many years of practice it's never helped anything. Over those long years however I did learn that if you work on who you personally are, let go of the idea that you have to be like other people and present yourself as a genuine person you might be lucky enough to find another someone who is actually interested in you for your personal qualities. You're not letting anyone down by being confused, but being like someone you're not isn't healthy. Measure progress by how you're doing right now, not how you think you should be doing. Drinking makes you feel bad? Don't drink, now you don't feel bad. Simple.

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  • noid
    6 years ago

    Are you the same one that posted a lot about this last year?

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