I'm unsatisfied sexualy, and i'm thinking of another man

I have been married almost a year now and I'm not getting what I need out of the sex I have with my husband. It's really not his fault I was his first and he just can't hold his load, and he is really bad at oral. I have been with other guys before so I know what the good stuff feels like and I am starting to miss it. All my husband ever wants to do is "make love" but you understand somtimes you just want to be fúcked out of ur mind.

Lately I have been txting alot and spending time with a friend of mine. We talk alot about sexual things and like to tease eachother about how we could really ravage eachothers bodys for hours. But I would never cheat and it's just talk right? I have recantly begun to enjoy a random fantisy about him becus he is a army boy and could really give me what I am craving. Like I said tho we would never do anything and besides he is being deployed at the begining of next month.

Is it normal for me to want him and dream about him cuz I'm not getting what I need in bed?

Is It Normal?
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  • tell your husband what you want, or just warch porn him and tell him, this scene turns me on, do that to me

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  • You never thought of investing the time you spend on dirty talking in ''training'' your husband?

    Like the comment above said if he ever learn about that it's going to hurt him bad. And for a good reason. Do you understand how humiliating this is for him? Your friend is probably bragging about how your husband is a cunt to his other male friends anyway... military guys...

    and the more you ''feed'' your envy of cheating the more you might end up doing it.

    Just fuck your husband good and he'll get a taste of it and will like it.

    Stop spreading the word like this because it will end up going back at him and you'll bite your fingers.

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  • U probably shouldn't say stuff like that to the other guy. Thin of how it might hurt ur husband. And thatcoul possibly lead to u doing ther things. Talk to ur husband. Teach him how to please u. Be the boss

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  • Do what's best for your self, you only live once.
    I feel the same way as you.

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