First off, I apologize for some of the other comments you're receiving. My husband is also trans. I'm a cis woman and have absolutely no comprehension of what it feels like to be trans. So when he came out to me a year into our relationship, I was less than understanding. It feels terrible looking back now, but I jut didn't get it so I was scared. Scared I would lose him, he'd become someone completely different or would just leave because I wasn't equipped to handle it all. It took me some time, but the more he talked to me about the things he wanted and I saw how happy it made him being himself, I opened up too. What helped me the most was him sharing with me. Now I wouldn't have it any other way with seeing him this happy and knowing he trusts me.
Just talk to her. Help her understand what it all means and what you need from her if she chooses to stay. Share the good parts and the bad. If she has it in her, she'll figure it all out and come to peace with it. If not, it wasn't meant to be and you will find whoever you are meant to be with. I hope this helps a little. Good luck 🖤
Thank you so much for this response. I'm trying to ignore the negative comments and I'm going to give your advice a chance to settle in my brain so I can choose what to do. I hope you and your husband are doing amazingly and continue to have an amazing relationship.
I'm trans and my girlfriend doesn't understand
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First off, I apologize for some of the other comments you're receiving. My husband is also trans. I'm a cis woman and have absolutely no comprehension of what it feels like to be trans. So when he came out to me a year into our relationship, I was less than understanding. It feels terrible looking back now, but I jut didn't get it so I was scared. Scared I would lose him, he'd become someone completely different or would just leave because I wasn't equipped to handle it all. It took me some time, but the more he talked to me about the things he wanted and I saw how happy it made him being himself, I opened up too. What helped me the most was him sharing with me. Now I wouldn't have it any other way with seeing him this happy and knowing he trusts me.
Just talk to her. Help her understand what it all means and what you need from her if she chooses to stay. Share the good parts and the bad. If she has it in her, she'll figure it all out and come to peace with it. If not, it wasn't meant to be and you will find whoever you are meant to be with. I hope this helps a little. Good luck 🖤
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Thank you so much for this response. I'm trying to ignore the negative comments and I'm going to give your advice a chance to settle in my brain so I can choose what to do. I hope you and your husband are doing amazingly and continue to have an amazing relationship.
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You're so welcome 🖤 Best of luck to you.