You're normal. Id say a lot of people have cheated (not all physical, but almost 100% if we're talking about emotional infidelity!!!) You know your cure? ACCEPTANCE & FACING THE REALITY OF NATURE. It's brought me more peace than anything else. Flat-out cheating is wrong, but it's natural for EVERYONE to at least feel some attraction outside of the relationship. You know what REALLY helps? I was tempted to cheat, but then I realized this, "he's not the only attractive male in the world, but keeping 1 of him is worth more than ALL of them." :) Tell each other that. Then temptation left. Find someone who thinks ur worth giving up the rest! Otherwise, OPEN RELATIONSHIP. Those are ur most realistic options, hun.
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You're normal. Id say a lot of people have cheated (not all physical, but almost 100% if we're talking about emotional infidelity!!!) You know your cure? ACCEPTANCE & FACING THE REALITY OF NATURE. It's brought me more peace than anything else. Flat-out cheating is wrong, but it's natural for EVERYONE to at least feel some attraction outside of the relationship. You know what REALLY helps? I was tempted to cheat, but then I realized this, "he's not the only attractive male in the world, but keeping 1 of him is worth more than ALL of them." :) Tell each other that. Then temptation left. Find someone who thinks ur worth giving up the rest! Otherwise, OPEN RELATIONSHIP. Those are ur most realistic options, hun.
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A very mature and well reasoned argument. My thoughts...
"Ditto".