Well, one way fixing a problem is realizing there is one. The next step is to do something about it. The only one who can convince you anything different is yourself. I Know it isn't easy, every time a woman gets interested in me and I show interest back, and when they like me more and seem to be moving too fast, it scares me. Sure I know not all women are the same, but I been cheated on too. And my fear is that even though not all women are the same, what if this one is the same as the ones who came before? Basically I base any other woman who have similar personalities, and what they like, how fast they are, and if they have enough in common it scares me. Now I have been talked to before but it never sticks, we have to fix this ourselves, when I think I am over it I get overwhelmed again then want to push them away. And every time I do that it feels like it rips away my humanity little by little, each time. I Don't know how I allowed myself to get like this, but it happened, it takes more than hope or wanting, it takes doing, and damn the outcome. Because until we can get over this problem, we will be forever single.
i'm terrified of being cheated on
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Well, one way fixing a problem is realizing there is one. The next step is to do something about it. The only one who can convince you anything different is yourself. I Know it isn't easy, every time a woman gets interested in me and I show interest back, and when they like me more and seem to be moving too fast, it scares me. Sure I know not all women are the same, but I been cheated on too. And my fear is that even though not all women are the same, what if this one is the same as the ones who came before? Basically I base any other woman who have similar personalities, and what they like, how fast they are, and if they have enough in common it scares me. Now I have been talked to before but it never sticks, we have to fix this ourselves, when I think I am over it I get overwhelmed again then want to push them away. And every time I do that it feels like it rips away my humanity little by little, each time. I Don't know how I allowed myself to get like this, but it happened, it takes more than hope or wanting, it takes doing, and damn the outcome. Because until we can get over this problem, we will be forever single.