It kills me seeing women post on the internet about "being straight but liking a girl who also likes them back" but refusing out of some non-existent principal! The Bigotry! The Bigotry!
Also, just because you know "You're female" doesn't mean you know what gender you like. Congratz, you learned what you should have known back in kindergarten provided you weren't gender confused and considering a sex-change operation. Something tells me that someone has imprinted gender-rolls into you something fierce.
Face it, you are bisexual but in denial. Bisexuals like both genders, but typically have a preference in one or the other. You have a preference in men, but your have fallen for a girl. You are just confused, refuse to believe this, and refuse to act on it in denial. Just accept it and try it out before you make a potentially false claim.
People would be all over a guy telling him he's in the closet and refuses to come out if he posted this. So you need to get out of the closet yourself. You won't lose anything by trying, trust me. You can only gain. You will learn your proper identity, whether or not you actually like her, or you find that you like woman as well just not her, or you actually find viable proof that you're straight and she becomes a good friend.
But what I meant to say was "I'm straight" not "I know I'm straight", sorry.. But I really consider myself straight since I litterally don't want to be in a relationship with a girl for the rest of my life.. As in, no homo.
I mean I stick to my religous ways, so I guess I could be a little stuborn. But that better be official or I'm considered sexually fluid since she's the only girl I have feelings for, and I don't have feelings for girls (Other than another girl where I only like her because she's cute, but other than that, no feelings) in general. Maybe I'm..*cough* we are just a little too young and naive.
And when I rejected her, (since she was such a great friend to me but then she wanted us to be a couple kind of thing, and I didn't want our friendship to end because of that, so) of course we stayed on the same level, (or we'd be the first bisexual couple in the whole campus) and dating is forbidden, unless it couldn't be helped.
But hey, rather than bisexual, I'm probably a pansexual myself... So yep, ever since I learned about the different genders out there, I became confused of my own.. But thanks for adding that much thought into it. Plus my history of crushes were all guys including now, which is like.. ten, hehehe.
Shouldn't really be confused about someones(or your own) gender if you find yourself liking the same sex as well as the other.
I also despise when someone uses the excuse "Don't want to ruin our friendship" as an excuse to not date someone. It's like a slap to the face on an emotional level, like they shouldn't have gotten near you in the first place and they would have had better chances. And you will never really be able to tell if they are fine with it or not.
I know it would burn me up to the point that I could probably no longer be around(ruined friendship anyways, thanks...) or even want to hear about their relationship(s), let alone see them out with someone/meet them.
I'm starting to fall for a pansexual
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It kills me seeing women post on the internet about "being straight but liking a girl who also likes them back" but refusing out of some non-existent principal! The Bigotry! The Bigotry!
Also, just because you know "You're female" doesn't mean you know what gender you like. Congratz, you learned what you should have known back in kindergarten provided you weren't gender confused and considering a sex-change operation. Something tells me that someone has imprinted gender-rolls into you something fierce.
Face it, you are bisexual but in denial. Bisexuals like both genders, but typically have a preference in one or the other. You have a preference in men, but your have fallen for a girl. You are just confused, refuse to believe this, and refuse to act on it in denial. Just accept it and try it out before you make a potentially false claim.
People would be all over a guy telling him he's in the closet and refuses to come out if he posted this. So you need to get out of the closet yourself. You won't lose anything by trying, trust me. You can only gain. You will learn your proper identity, whether or not you actually like her, or you find that you like woman as well just not her, or you actually find viable proof that you're straight and she becomes a good friend.
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But what I meant to say was "I'm straight" not "I know I'm straight", sorry.. But I really consider myself straight since I litterally don't want to be in a relationship with a girl for the rest of my life.. As in, no homo.
I mean I stick to my religous ways, so I guess I could be a little stuborn. But that better be official or I'm considered sexually fluid since she's the only girl I have feelings for, and I don't have feelings for girls (Other than another girl where I only like her because she's cute, but other than that, no feelings) in general. Maybe I'm..*cough* we are just a little too young and naive.
And when I rejected her, (since she was such a great friend to me but then she wanted us to be a couple kind of thing, and I didn't want our friendship to end because of that, so) of course we stayed on the same level, (or we'd be the first bisexual couple in the whole campus) and dating is forbidden, unless it couldn't be helped.
But hey, rather than bisexual, I'm probably a pansexual myself... So yep, ever since I learned about the different genders out there, I became confused of my own.. But thanks for adding that much thought into it. Plus my history of crushes were all guys including now, which is like.. ten, hehehe.
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Shouldn't really be confused about someones(or your own) gender if you find yourself liking the same sex as well as the other.
I also despise when someone uses the excuse "Don't want to ruin our friendship" as an excuse to not date someone. It's like a slap to the face on an emotional level, like they shouldn't have gotten near you in the first place and they would have had better chances. And you will never really be able to tell if they are fine with it or not.
I know it would burn me up to the point that I could probably no longer be around(ruined friendship anyways, thanks...) or even want to hear about their relationship(s), let alone see them out with someone/meet them.