I'm so curious
ok well i have a boyfriend and every time i meet i cute guy i go crazy over them and i have dreams about them. dreams that i don't even have of my boyfriend like sexual dreams. is this like ok or wrong ???
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what these people are saying is true and yes it is normal. But a word of advice don't let yourself get to comfertable with the idea of other people. Make sure to still keep it fresh in your mind that anyone other than your significant other is wrong. Otherwise you might get your line of cheating and hormones crossed.
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It's normal but like... I hate to say it - you can do what guys do. They see or talk to a hot chick during the day and bang their girlfriends when they come home thinking of that chick. This is a big guy secret lol but it's true. Do that! Pretend your guy is the hot guy you saw that day. Close your eyes.... I guess what I'm saying is that it is normal to dream about these guys. Everyone has hormones and it is in our primitive nature to screw... don't beat yourself up just use your thoughts to your advantage.
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This happens to me, too. I've been in a relationship for 5 years. I'm always wondering the same thing.
So here's the conclusion i've come to.
I think it's normal to want what you can't have. It's also normal to like to feel wanted, and desired. Sexual dreams about a cute boy allow you to give into those desires.
If you've been in a committed relationship for a long time, it's perfectly fine to have harmless crushes, as things tend to get a little "stale" (not in a bad way, but stale nonetheless) and you long for the excitement of dating and getting to know each other. When two people get comfortable with each other, that excitement wears thin, and while there's probably no question that you deeply care for your boyfriend, you're human, and you have human desires.
If you ever get to the point where you want to physically act out those fantasies (ie: cheating on your boyfriend), that's when you have to seriously question your relationship. Stop and ask yourself why you're feeling this way: are you possibly too young and inexperienced to be in a full-on committed relationship? Do you feel like you should explore before settling down? There's nothing wrong with that, it's all a part of finding yourself.
If you have a pretty strong, solid relationship with your boyfriend, then there's no need to question yourself, you're perfectly normal. :)
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