I'm so confused on what he wants?

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Okay so I've been talking to this guy for a little while. And a couple months back I asked him what he wanted, if he just wanted to mess around with me, or if he actually wanted to be with me. and he said just messing around. And of course I felt stupid after that, because I actually thought he might want a relationship but I just pretended like I didn't care and just left my feelings in and said that's what I wanted too. Anyway. A couple months after he told me that he actually wanted to go out and do something, like around people. And actually do something non sexual. And I was just like huh? And I don't wanna ask him about what he means again bc I asked him once and I don't wanna feel that stupid again. So what does he mean by any of this. Can anyone help?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    7 years ago | pl

    I wouldnt loose to many nights sleep over that if i were you.

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    • Greasy_Spics
      7 years ago | pl

      You probably don't even get guys who want to be "fuck buddies".

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      • flyingnostalgia
        7 years ago | pl

        I would say the same goes for you, but then i realize that is not true because your fuck buddie is your father.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      So what exactly are you saying?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago | pl

    Even if you don't think you can find better?

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  • Cymbalism
    7 years ago | pl

    If he actually said to you that all he wanted was sex, then I wouldn't put much faith in him.

    Don't hide your feelings from him. If you want an actual relationship, then talk to him. If you want something more than just sex, and he won't provide that, then you should really ditch him and find someone better.

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  • dytrog
    7 years ago | pl

    Believe it or not guy's do like to do other tings other tan getting fucked or sucked. It may be a great and favorite thing. We also enjoy being with male friends to party and watch football and other things that guy's do. Don't think that is saying he wants to do other He is falling for you. It is possible that is the reason. But I would not count on it if I were you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      but that doesn't make any sense to me after he told me all he wanted from me is sex.

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      • Forestheart
        7 years ago | pl

        Maybe he has a strange power that allows him to change his mind.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          haha well the thing is, I've fell for a guy I was just friends with benefits before and he never changed his mind. So now that it's happening with someone else I figured once he had his mind made up he couldn't change it

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