I think people are reacting poorly to your post because of the amount of time you've focused on your intelligence.
Regardless....I don't think you meant any harm. So onto you post.
Honestly....I'm not sure you asked any questions. You did states a lot of facts....or things you perceive to be facts. But let me respond with my opinion on the matter. Look...good guy or shitty guy....They all want sex. Understand that....this isn't a bad thing, because you should be with someone who's sexually attracted to you and vice versa. Sexual attraction is an interesting thing...because you can be sexually attracted to someone the second you see them...but the more you get to know them....it can grow or weaken.
Help yourself. Quit comparing your intelligence to would be suitors. Intelligence is subjective. A person that can tear down a motor, repair it and put it back together has a different kind of intelligence than someone who's into string theory. Also...don't worry about finding a boyfriend and worry about find friends that you have things in common with. This will eventually lead to a "boyfriend" if you're just looking for friends...because at the end of the day...the person you marry most likely should be your best friend...a partner. You're young...so guys tend to be more intimidated at that age....as you get older...successful and intelligent guys...end up figuring out that they are worth more than they gave themselves credit when they were younger....and young guys...in their college years and early 20's are still a bit immature (most, not all)...
Lastly....if there are guys that you like....that you think are intimidated by you...approach them. It's 2014... Women and men are equals. Trust me...a simple "Hi, I'm 'Amber'..." will do the trick.
I'm smart, pretty, weird, and I can't get a boyfriend
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I think people are reacting poorly to your post because of the amount of time you've focused on your intelligence.
Regardless....I don't think you meant any harm. So onto you post.
Honestly....I'm not sure you asked any questions. You did states a lot of facts....or things you perceive to be facts. But let me respond with my opinion on the matter. Look...good guy or shitty guy....They all want sex. Understand that....this isn't a bad thing, because you should be with someone who's sexually attracted to you and vice versa. Sexual attraction is an interesting thing...because you can be sexually attracted to someone the second you see them...but the more you get to know them....it can grow or weaken.
Help yourself. Quit comparing your intelligence to would be suitors. Intelligence is subjective. A person that can tear down a motor, repair it and put it back together has a different kind of intelligence than someone who's into string theory. Also...don't worry about finding a boyfriend and worry about find friends that you have things in common with. This will eventually lead to a "boyfriend" if you're just looking for friends...because at the end of the day...the person you marry most likely should be your best friend...a partner. You're young...so guys tend to be more intimidated at that age....as you get older...successful and intelligent guys...end up figuring out that they are worth more than they gave themselves credit when they were younger....and young guys...in their college years and early 20's are still a bit immature (most, not all)...
Lastly....if there are guys that you like....that you think are intimidated by you...approach them. It's 2014... Women and men are equals. Trust me...a simple "Hi, I'm 'Amber'..." will do the trick.