You said a couple things that made me wonder if you actually want a boyfriend.
"I simply can't imagine meeting someone and staying with them"
This statement implied that you may be setting yourself up to miss out on potential partners.
It sounds like you have guys who like you but you don't feel interested in them, which is ok and very common.
You're actually being smarter by waiting for someone who you feel is a good match.
Most people rush into finding a relationship right away, which almost always fails, but smarter people tend to make better choices and will simply pass on incongruent matches.
I think you could have a boyfriend easily but choose to wait for a compatible match while you see other people hooking up with people they don't really get along with and you wonder why you're the one who is alone but it's simply because most people are dumb and will go for anybody who gives them attention.
I'm smart, pretty, weird, and I can't get a boyfriend
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You said a couple things that made me wonder if you actually want a boyfriend.
"I simply can't imagine meeting someone and staying with them"
This statement implied that you may be setting yourself up to miss out on potential partners.
It sounds like you have guys who like you but you don't feel interested in them, which is ok and very common.
You're actually being smarter by waiting for someone who you feel is a good match.
Most people rush into finding a relationship right away, which almost always fails, but smarter people tend to make better choices and will simply pass on incongruent matches.
I think you could have a boyfriend easily but choose to wait for a compatible match while you see other people hooking up with people they don't really get along with and you wonder why you're the one who is alone but it's simply because most people are dumb and will go for anybody who gives them attention.