Thanks, I appreciate the advice, and the quote. I definitely try to write my own script, as it were, and I'm going to try and work on that. I think I have fairly low emotional intelligence when it comes to figuring out other people's motivations, and I can be very defensive. But I'm going to take your advice, and try to stop over-thinking.
i think you will learn it better to mellow out as you get older and more relaxed in your own skin. That is what i learned to transition into. It much easier to just be open and honest, like a book. And just let people read you and come to their own judgement of you. no need to try to live up to other expectation or your perceived expectations they have of you.
Just be who you are, and the right people will start surrounding you =D
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Thanks, I appreciate the advice, and the quote. I definitely try to write my own script, as it were, and I'm going to try and work on that. I think I have fairly low emotional intelligence when it comes to figuring out other people's motivations, and I can be very defensive. But I'm going to take your advice, and try to stop over-thinking.
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i think you will learn it better to mellow out as you get older and more relaxed in your own skin. That is what i learned to transition into. It much easier to just be open and honest, like a book. And just let people read you and come to their own judgement of you. no need to try to live up to other expectation or your perceived expectations they have of you.
Just be who you are, and the right people will start surrounding you =D