I'm scared of getting oral

My problem is that he likes to give oral, and I really want him to, but I'm kind of scared.

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I'm in a relationship which is pretty good on the whole, we had a couple of problems, but we sorted them out, and they were never anything that would impact on this, and if anything it's strengthened (sp?) us. I don't know if it's a trust issue or what. I could 'let' him do it, but I would feel weird, and I'm not going to zorgasm if I don't feel comfortable.
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Comments ( 4 )
  • dappled

    I love to give it too, but I have been with women who didn't share my enthusiasm. Their issue was that it's too personal. I understood, and tried not to think about it.

    You shouldn't feel pressure to do something you don't want to do, but if you do want to try it, then work out what especially is bothering you, talk to your partner, and see if you can work something out.

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  • Neglesh

    Normal to be scared? Of course. If it's clean down there, he won't mind.

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  • Dozis

    You better be. You mean ranting? Stop fucking ranting!

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  • Sunshine.51

    Well you'll never know unless you try it out!! It's nice, you should try it.

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