I'm pregnant. is it normal my boyfriend wants less sex?

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When my boyfriend & I first started dating we had sex everyday sometimes 2-3 times per day. We were together 5 months before I got pregnant and things started to change. We still did it just about everyday the first couple months of pregnancy, then we started doing it every other day. My hormones started to make crazy horny and have not yet calmed down. As time went on we started having sex less and less because I think my boyfriend got turned off because of how horny I am. Now I'm in my ninth month of pregnancy, and sometimes we go five days without having sex. My vibrator is now my bestfriend and I have to masterbate sometimes 2 times a day so that I don't keep bugging my boyfriend to fuck. Is this normal? & if so, will we ever have a normal sex life again?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    In the first month of a relationship couples tend to have sex very often but it's normal that the frequency decreases in time. Moreover some men find it hard to have sex with their pregnant women because they fear of hurting the baby or their wives or find it weird too ejaculate on the baby. You should try to understand him.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      That's what I was thinking, to my understanding a lot of men are uncomfortable about hurting them or just feel that a child right there makes it awkward.

      ....I remember some comedian did a little routine about having sex with his pregnant wife and the kid did some mummy face shit across her stomach. He's like "Honey, I can't do this anymore!"
      "Why??"
      "The baby's enjoying it too!"

      Died a little inside when I heard that.

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      • kelili
        11 years ago

        Ooooh that is disturbing. Makes me shiver:O :)

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    It's normal. Pregnancy adn parenthood are huge lifestyle changes and will affect your sex life one way or another.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    Having been there myself I can attest that for a man pregnant sex does not feel good after about the first three months, so your guy is totally normal.

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  • stupidassholeguy
    11 years ago

    That's normal, He probibly dosn't want to hurt the baby, what's not normal is, only after 5 months? Most people wait at least a year or so. And last, he'll probibly want sex again after you're pregnant.

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  • HRT420
    11 years ago

    FML

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Yuck, who would want to bang a pregnant chick? Just wait till that baby pops out of you. You're not going to want to have sex for a longg time. Few months a least, maybe up to a year. Some bitches feel really weird about sex after childbirth. Your meat flaps are going to be flapping in the wind like a pair of old western saloon doors.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    OMG i may never have pregnant sex again.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Guess what... you'll get even less after the baby is born.

    But, just because you go 5 days without sex doesn't mean he doesn't want you.

    as suggested above, he may be afraid of hurting you. but he may just be tired. you can't perform 247 forever you know

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