I'm physically and emotionally divided.

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Ok so I'm a younger male and I'm really confused. I'm emotionally attracted to females but physically attracted to males. I crush on girls, even get nervous around them. But then when it comes to getting intimate, I couldn't imagine myself with one. I want to be physically intimate with men and emotionally intimate with women. I've been like this for a couple years and its exhausting. Hopefully I'll grow out of it but anyways.. Is this normal?

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  • midnightwolf6
    11 years ago

    Maybe try to find a nice bi girl whose ok with experimentation in the bed room. Or a nice guy whose really sensitive?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    It's unfortunate, but normal. I have a close friend who's like this but in reverse, she prefers the personality of men, but is physically attracted to women. My friends and I joke she needs to find a trans person lol

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  • MmmHmm
    11 years ago

    I literally feel EXACTLY the same as you. For me, I sort of think it's due to the fact that I want to be emotionally connected to girls without doing anything sexual. Therefore, an alternative--and what seems like the only possibility of me being sexually active--is to think about guys that I find attractive.

    I agree it is very exhausting and frustrating. But really, I haven't done anything with either sex yet. I don't want to just sleep around with girls because for me, I would prefer it meant something. And I haven't done anything with a guy because I haven't found one to do anything with, and I'm too scared to initiate anything.

    Eventually, I think I will find a girl that I want to be in a relationship with, and then I will be able to think of her in a sexual way as well. I just don't want to disrespect women and think of them in a sexual way since I'm emotionally connected to them.

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