I'm obsessed with my brothers girlfriend god help me

Cant vote on any of those options. You are young and crushing on your older brothers girl. Very normal. You aren't in love. I know it doesn't seem like it now but you will get over her.

I voted poor soul, but if you try something you will be a piece of shit. Don't be a piece of shit, let your brother's girlfriend be.

I think this is really normal and it doesn't make you a scumbag, especially since you know it's wrong.

Really all it means is you want a nice sweet girl too and you don't have one right now, so you're focusing on your brother's gf.

I think all men probably want to be with sweet and kind, cute girls. It's totally natural.

Find a girl for yourself and you will find yourself forgetting about your brother's girlfriend.

And btw keep this to yourself. Nothing good will come of telling either one of them your feelings.

There's nothing wrong with having a crush on someone who's taken. Just don't act on those feelings. Telling her or trying to hook up with her would bring nothing good.

I mean, you can try and fuck her but I doubt it'll end well.

I'm sure a crush is fine, just know your boundaries.

Boundaries.

“Ninety-nine percent of the world's lovers are not with their first choice. That's what makes the jukebox play.”

Willie Nelson

Yeah feelings suck bro. Just gotta get over it.

My brothers girlfriend either takes some kind of drug or has a mental handicap or something. I wana ask soooo badly but obvy I cant. They seem happy though that's what counts.

As to you. Just move on man. Dont be a piece of shit who tries something cause then you'll lose both of them

I think it's sweet and kinda sexy ;-)

It's normal to fantasize about people.

Just don't try to ruin their relationship and you're fine.

You have a crush, it's nice you feel guilty about it, because if you didn't, THAT would make you more of a 'scum bag'. It's good you know not to go there. Maybe she has a sister or a friend for a double blind date you guys could go out and do?

You can't help that, you'll just have to deal with it unfortunately. Stay away from her as much as possible as that should make it easier to keep your emotions in check.

Here's the advice of a 'serial crusher':

It there's a 'chemistry' between you, run like the wind. Go no-contact. Avoid even hearing about her.

If there isn't, avoid her as much as possible. Speak to someone about her. Use art to your advantage. Maybe write a story in which you leave her on respectful terms, in order to 'make peace' with the situation, symbolically? Symbol is very powerful where emotions are concerned - people don't give it enough credit. It gives a sense of concreteness to non-material things like emotions, and can give you an impression of having control over them.

Grieve the loss. Induce the grief; don't wait for it to come on its own, because the longer you let the crush go on, the worse the grief will be - like a cancer. The worse it hurts, the harder it will be not to try to make a move towards her (it's amazing what a person will sacrifice and who they will betray when not doing so is agony.). The sooner you start grieving, the sooner you'll be free and the less painful it will be, and the fewer compromises you will probably make. Use music. Candles. Incense. Anything you normally use to grieve losses. You could even take something symbolic of your crush and bury it in a little box at the bottom of your garden, like a deceased pet.

Get yeeeerself one and that should fix it.

Get away from her and dont hang out with her. Your in the way of messing things up and it can be bad for a little bit

People can't choose who they're attracted to. It's important to maintain boundaries so as to ensure your family relationship doesn't deteriorate. Take a step back for a while. That said, it's perfectly acceptable to be honest. Maybe sit your brother and his girlfriend down and say "Look, I'll be stepping back from you guys for a while. I have strong feelings for [blank] and don't wanna harm your relationship". You're being mature, respectful and pointing out your desire to ensure they're happy. If you don't believe your brother will be mature about it then you don't need to tell him. If he pulls you aside and asks why you're avoiding him and his gf then by all means do so though.

You will get your own girl someday then you will focus on her. Dont do anything you will regret.