Look, you yourself have said that you've been in a relationship for 5 years so you must understand that it's a long period of time in someones life so of course there is still going to be "evidence" of their relationship - particularly if there wasn't a long gap between them splitting up and you getting together.
You can't hold it against your boyfriend for making plans for the future with this girl when they were together so it's not really fair to keep getting upset with him everytime you come across evidence of their past relationship. I can see where you are coming from but you have to be careful because if you keep going off on one about something in the past that can't be changed then you will start to push him away. You have to really look into your soul and either accept that he had a relationship with that girl or if you cant hack it then move on because you can't change his past anymore than you can change your own. Your guy is telling you he wasn't happy with her and it's over so just accept that what has been has been and enjoy your relationship!
I'm obessesed with and super jealous of my boyfriend's ex
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Look, you yourself have said that you've been in a relationship for 5 years so you must understand that it's a long period of time in someones life so of course there is still going to be "evidence" of their relationship - particularly if there wasn't a long gap between them splitting up and you getting together.
You can't hold it against your boyfriend for making plans for the future with this girl when they were together so it's not really fair to keep getting upset with him everytime you come across evidence of their past relationship. I can see where you are coming from but you have to be careful because if you keep going off on one about something in the past that can't be changed then you will start to push him away. You have to really look into your soul and either accept that he had a relationship with that girl or if you cant hack it then move on because you can't change his past anymore than you can change your own. Your guy is telling you he wasn't happy with her and it's over so just accept that what has been has been and enjoy your relationship!