Good point. RoseIsabella had me going there with her truly excellent reply post, but you have given me some food for thought. Women whine and cry all the time about domestic violence when more often then not they themselves are the primary reason behind it. In other words, shut the fuck up, bitch or you are going to be sorry. Call the cops all you want. That's not going to save your sorry lying ass fron getting your face busted open!
Women are not the only victims/survivors of domestic abuse of course. I've known men who were in abusive relationships as well as women, and I've also known a couple of women who were the perpetrators of domestic violence. Regardless of the abuser's sex or gender and despite any hurtful words from the victim or potential victim said potential abuser has the obligation to remove him or herself from the situation and ultimately the relationship.
There are people who enrage me to the point that I just want to decimate them, but I choose to stay away from those people, because the crazy drama a friendship or romantic relationship with such persons would produce is of course not worth my sanity or freedom. If someone says things to me that hurt my feelings or anger me to the point that I feel the urge to strike that person then there's no point in remaining in a relationship or friendship with that person, as I don't care to go to jail just because someone's words left me feeling booty hurt. Can words upset us all emotionally? Of course words can hurt. Yes, there are such a things as emotional abuse and or verbal abuse. I happen to believe that we all owe it to ourselves to not remain in unhealthy relationships.
A funny thing I want to mention is that the first two abusive people who said to me, "what did he/she do to deserve being hit" or "they (the victim)made me do it", we're in fact women. Yanno what I told those two people separately, and on two different ocassions? I said, "if someone makes you feel so bad that you just want to hit him(her) then you shouldn't be with him(her) or around him(her) period, you're better off alone, stop being afraid of being lonely". There's nothing wrong with being alone, and I was alone for a very long time before I met my current beau; if it doesn't work out then I will be alone again. Sure, the single life may get lonely sometimes, maybe even most of the time, but it's not the end of the world, and being alone is better than wasting time and emotion with the wrong person.
Females from a very young age have been taught NOT to be responsible for their actions. When backed into the corner of responsibility women use their only weapon 'crying'. You can look at any circumstance in life as proof. Even the Law does not hold females responsible as male in their actions. Look at child rape for an example.
Basically females have grown up thinking and believing they are natural victims to males in society and the law has backed them up all the way.
Your words are unbelievably refreshing. Everything in this current society is geared towards denying women any sort of responsibility. Even in the workplace the average woman is under the delusion that getting her hair done and makeup is the primary responsibility of each day. What makes it even more mind boggling is this ridiculous idea of "equality". What would the average women who fully supports equality want? To be treated like a man? Show me a woman who wants to be treated like a man and I'll show you a closet dyke who probably deluded herself she got raped one time and now every man is going to pay.
Even the legal system fully supports this nonsense, especially divorce court. There is no mercy on the common man there. Imagine going into a proceeding and seeing not only your soon to be ex-wife but her bulldog dyke attorney and look at this a female judge! I'm sure I'll get a fair hearing!
This whole society has turned the traditional family unit into a joke. No wonder we have such substance abuse problems and overall dysfunction, these are the same people who grew up watching Dad expect mom to have some responsibility and, dare I say it, traditional gender roles. And what was Mom's answer. Time to call a lawyer.
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Good point. RoseIsabella had me going there with her truly excellent reply post, but you have given me some food for thought. Women whine and cry all the time about domestic violence when more often then not they themselves are the primary reason behind it. In other words, shut the fuck up, bitch or you are going to be sorry. Call the cops all you want. That's not going to save your sorry lying ass fron getting your face busted open!
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Women are not the only victims/survivors of domestic abuse of course. I've known men who were in abusive relationships as well as women, and I've also known a couple of women who were the perpetrators of domestic violence. Regardless of the abuser's sex or gender and despite any hurtful words from the victim or potential victim said potential abuser has the obligation to remove him or herself from the situation and ultimately the relationship.
There are people who enrage me to the point that I just want to decimate them, but I choose to stay away from those people, because the crazy drama a friendship or romantic relationship with such persons would produce is of course not worth my sanity or freedom. If someone says things to me that hurt my feelings or anger me to the point that I feel the urge to strike that person then there's no point in remaining in a relationship or friendship with that person, as I don't care to go to jail just because someone's words left me feeling booty hurt. Can words upset us all emotionally? Of course words can hurt. Yes, there are such a things as emotional abuse and or verbal abuse. I happen to believe that we all owe it to ourselves to not remain in unhealthy relationships.
A funny thing I want to mention is that the first two abusive people who said to me, "what did he/she do to deserve being hit" or "they (the victim)made me do it", we're in fact women. Yanno what I told those two people separately, and on two different ocassions? I said, "if someone makes you feel so bad that you just want to hit him(her) then you shouldn't be with him(her) or around him(her) period, you're better off alone, stop being afraid of being lonely". There's nothing wrong with being alone, and I was alone for a very long time before I met my current beau; if it doesn't work out then I will be alone again. Sure, the single life may get lonely sometimes, maybe even most of the time, but it's not the end of the world, and being alone is better than wasting time and emotion with the wrong person.
Females from a very young age have been taught NOT to be responsible for their actions. When backed into the corner of responsibility women use their only weapon 'crying'. You can look at any circumstance in life as proof. Even the Law does not hold females responsible as male in their actions. Look at child rape for an example.
Basically females have grown up thinking and believing they are natural victims to males in society and the law has backed them up all the way.
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Your words are unbelievably refreshing. Everything in this current society is geared towards denying women any sort of responsibility. Even in the workplace the average woman is under the delusion that getting her hair done and makeup is the primary responsibility of each day. What makes it even more mind boggling is this ridiculous idea of "equality". What would the average women who fully supports equality want? To be treated like a man? Show me a woman who wants to be treated like a man and I'll show you a closet dyke who probably deluded herself she got raped one time and now every man is going to pay.
Even the legal system fully supports this nonsense, especially divorce court. There is no mercy on the common man there. Imagine going into a proceeding and seeing not only your soon to be ex-wife but her bulldog dyke attorney and look at this a female judge! I'm sure I'll get a fair hearing!
This whole society has turned the traditional family unit into a joke. No wonder we have such substance abuse problems and overall dysfunction, these are the same people who grew up watching Dad expect mom to have some responsibility and, dare I say it, traditional gender roles. And what was Mom's answer. Time to call a lawyer.