You would do well to take a break from dating entirely, and work through your painful issues from past relationships. You won't be able to have a happy and healthy relationship until you work through your previous issues. You should also get screened for a possible mood and or personality disorder. Sadly many people do go to therapy for years without much progress for lack of a proper diagnosis and seeing the wrong therapist. If you don't have a rapport with a therapist then look for another one. If the therapist is just listening to you complain and not challenging you then it's not gonna help you much. Cognitive behavioral therapy can really help especially if you have the proper diagnosis.
I certainly don't endorse your stupid degradation fetish or anyone's for that matter. I do in fact appreciate your honest and candid post. Lots of people seem to be fans of BDSM these days, but honestly it's probably much more of a red flag that there's something wrong. I'm sorry you had a bad marriage and a painful divorce, but hating women in general isn't going to bring you any real peace or happiness. There are plenty of men and women who hate the opposite sex, because of bad experiences in their pasts, but that hatred doesn't get them anywhere. Additionally this degradation bullshit will only escalate, and may very well land you behind bars. Normal healthy people will not be attracted to you, because normal healthy people won't care to be degraded by you urinating and defeating on them. Basically the only women who will be interested in you will really messed up women who are probably just as damaged as you are, but just in a different way.
If you want to improve your life stop acting out with women, start attending a program for sex addiction, get back into therapy get a proper diagnosis and do not use drugs or alcohol! It's your choice to improve your life or get worse, because the only way out of it is through it.
P.S. Gay men don't typically hate women, they're just attracted to other men instead of women.
I'm not responsible for how other members of my gender act, and I certainly don't hold the average guy responsible for the actions of the rest of his general either.
I'm not responsible for other members of my gender just as you aren't responsible for other members of yours. Now stop wasting my time with your obvious stupidity! Bugger off!!! Shoo!
I'm not gay but I hate women.
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You would do well to take a break from dating entirely, and work through your painful issues from past relationships. You won't be able to have a happy and healthy relationship until you work through your previous issues. You should also get screened for a possible mood and or personality disorder. Sadly many people do go to therapy for years without much progress for lack of a proper diagnosis and seeing the wrong therapist. If you don't have a rapport with a therapist then look for another one. If the therapist is just listening to you complain and not challenging you then it's not gonna help you much. Cognitive behavioral therapy can really help especially if you have the proper diagnosis.
I certainly don't endorse your stupid degradation fetish or anyone's for that matter. I do in fact appreciate your honest and candid post. Lots of people seem to be fans of BDSM these days, but honestly it's probably much more of a red flag that there's something wrong. I'm sorry you had a bad marriage and a painful divorce, but hating women in general isn't going to bring you any real peace or happiness. There are plenty of men and women who hate the opposite sex, because of bad experiences in their pasts, but that hatred doesn't get them anywhere. Additionally this degradation bullshit will only escalate, and may very well land you behind bars. Normal healthy people will not be attracted to you, because normal healthy people won't care to be degraded by you urinating and defeating on them. Basically the only women who will be interested in you will really messed up women who are probably just as damaged as you are, but just in a different way.
If you want to improve your life stop acting out with women, start attending a program for sex addiction, get back into therapy get a proper diagnosis and do not use drugs or alcohol! It's your choice to improve your life or get worse, because the only way out of it is through it.
P.S. Gay men don't typically hate women, they're just attracted to other men instead of women.
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Great response RoseIsabella: I hope OP follows your advice
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Thanks for your support Ellenna.
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I guess the ball's in his court now.
Women created this man.
You can thank your sisters
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I'm not responsible for how other members of my gender act, and I certainly don't hold the average guy responsible for the actions of the rest of his general either.
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Of course, a woman not wanting to take responsibility is no surprise.
You give advice to other women and men on this site...YET you as a WOMAN refuse to take responsibility to what happens IF someone follows your advice.
Typical female
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*lights a torch*
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Okay, back under the bridge!
I'm not responsible for other members of my gender just as you aren't responsible for other members of yours. Now stop wasting my time with your obvious stupidity! Bugger off!!! Shoo!