I hate moralistic talk but if you are waiting to be told that it is not cheating to make you feel better I think no one will do it. Don't forget all you promised when married her.
Apart from that even when you don't get married but are in a relationship of any kind people in our culture do expect the other to be faithful. That's how it works in our so called society.
If you do it who am I to tell you what so ever. I respect everyone issues as long as the other's respect mine.
If you cheat on your wife be quite sure she will never find out. Most guys become a bit careless after a wile. They are so sure about themselves, how good they are doing it that in the end she finds out.
Women suffer a lot with that and most times they like so much that in the end they forgive us or sometimes keep forgiving us. Some women they know when we go out what we are going to do and say nothing coz of how much they love us, their generosity or simply to keep a home together with the children we made together.
The issue is more complicated than we take most times when young. A soon as we see another pretty women looking at us there we go. Its a matter of ego. It looks we are less man if we don't do it.
I don't conned anyone doing it, I just think people shall be aware of all it takes in our society.
I live in Europe were to have a lover inside the marriage it looks pretty normal for him and for her. The thing is, the couple must not make questions about it. Her to him and the other way round. Like this relationships keep going and many times last longer. Sometime latter they stop having another and there they are for life.
All this cheating happens coz of the pressure some cultures do over guys getting married about 30 otherwise people might think there is something wrong with them. For what I've learned this happens a lot in USA for instance.
Here people do get married much latter and live their life till they feel they are prepared for a life together. Meanwhile they keep having a sexual relationship, many times with only one person for a long time without commitments.
Is kind of different.
Anyway I don't pretend to know all about. That's what I see around me all the time or just talking with people.
My life got quite complicated since I was very young. I had a child when I was 20 and raised him totally alone.
Now, more free to date I finally found a women like I said above. We meet several times and its very nice. A lot of respect but each one in is own place. So far it works for a wile already.
I never wanted to get married in my life. Marriage is a very serious issue. In case one is not prepared for it must not make promises he can't comply with.
I'm a guy close to 37 and I must say in most matters women are by far stronger than we are and if they expect something from you, something you promised you should think twice.
Sorry for this long post and for bad English.
I'm not cheating if I don't get caught. Am I?
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I hate moralistic talk but if you are waiting to be told that it is not cheating to make you feel better I think no one will do it. Don't forget all you promised when married her.
Apart from that even when you don't get married but are in a relationship of any kind people in our culture do expect the other to be faithful. That's how it works in our so called society.
If you do it who am I to tell you what so ever. I respect everyone issues as long as the other's respect mine.
If you cheat on your wife be quite sure she will never find out. Most guys become a bit careless after a wile. They are so sure about themselves, how good they are doing it that in the end she finds out.
Women suffer a lot with that and most times they like so much that in the end they forgive us or sometimes keep forgiving us. Some women they know when we go out what we are going to do and say nothing coz of how much they love us, their generosity or simply to keep a home together with the children we made together.
The issue is more complicated than we take most times when young. A soon as we see another pretty women looking at us there we go. Its a matter of ego. It looks we are less man if we don't do it.
I don't conned anyone doing it, I just think people shall be aware of all it takes in our society.
I live in Europe were to have a lover inside the marriage it looks pretty normal for him and for her. The thing is, the couple must not make questions about it. Her to him and the other way round. Like this relationships keep going and many times last longer. Sometime latter they stop having another and there they are for life.
All this cheating happens coz of the pressure some cultures do over guys getting married about 30 otherwise people might think there is something wrong with them. For what I've learned this happens a lot in USA for instance.
Here people do get married much latter and live their life till they feel they are prepared for a life together. Meanwhile they keep having a sexual relationship, many times with only one person for a long time without commitments.
Is kind of different.
Anyway I don't pretend to know all about. That's what I see around me all the time or just talking with people.
My life got quite complicated since I was very young. I had a child when I was 20 and raised him totally alone.
Now, more free to date I finally found a women like I said above. We meet several times and its very nice. A lot of respect but each one in is own place. So far it works for a wile already.
I never wanted to get married in my life. Marriage is a very serious issue. In case one is not prepared for it must not make promises he can't comply with.
I'm a guy close to 37 and I must say in most matters women are by far stronger than we are and if they expect something from you, something you promised you should think twice.
Sorry for this long post and for bad English.