Seems to me that your friend has no taboos regarding sex. It%%u2019s ok but she doesn%%u2019t have to impose her lifestyle on you. On the other hand, you don%%u2019t have to stand there and watch or participate if you don%%u2019t want to, no matter how drunk you are.
If it bothers you, you should say something to her when the both of you are sober. I know it can be hard though. You can also stop seeing her or just stop drinking with her.
If you had fantasies about it, it does not necessarily make you gay or bi or whatever. Sometimes fantasies are just that: fantasies, something you wouldn%%u2019t want to happen in real life. But, if you do feel an attraction and engage in sexual activity with her, it%%u2019s also fine. Many heterosexual women have had gay experiences in their life as part of their %%u201Clearning curve%%u201D. It%%u2019s up to you to decide what you want to do.
I'm not a lesbian but I want to...
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Seems to me that your friend has no taboos regarding sex. It%%u2019s ok but she doesn%%u2019t have to impose her lifestyle on you. On the other hand, you don%%u2019t have to stand there and watch or participate if you don%%u2019t want to, no matter how drunk you are.
If it bothers you, you should say something to her when the both of you are sober. I know it can be hard though. You can also stop seeing her or just stop drinking with her.
If you had fantasies about it, it does not necessarily make you gay or bi or whatever. Sometimes fantasies are just that: fantasies, something you wouldn%%u2019t want to happen in real life. But, if you do feel an attraction and engage in sexual activity with her, it%%u2019s also fine. Many heterosexual women have had gay experiences in their life as part of their %%u201Clearning curve%%u201D. It%%u2019s up to you to decide what you want to do.