I'm in love with my daughter's best friend

I think it's best to just let it go. The girl is only 19 and has been avoiding you for two weeks. I'd suggest repairing the relationship with your daughter instead since she's clearly affected by that.

Stop being an asshole.

She probably looked up to you as a father figure and you just RUINED it. Take a hint.

>thought of you as a father figure

Goddamn cunts, they do this shit all the time. You can bet your ass the girl knew what she was doing. Coming over to her friends dad's house by herself, spending one-on-one time with you, then the bitch even TOOK A SHOWER at YOUR HOUSE then sat down beside you in a bath robe.

Like she just had to have a shower that moment.
So naturally when a man acts on that, she wants cop out at the last moment like a cunt, just so she can go to class the next day and talk about her friend and how her " creepy dad " made a move on her. All this just so she can have some juicy drama, because all girls are mentally unstable attention whires. No regards to who she is hurting or causing trouble for. C.u.n.t.

Yes, and she made little question of it. Before we hit the side road home, we were chatting about this and that, and her sinewy, nail-polished left hand found it's way to my shoulder, then, briefly, leg. That's when my brain said..Uh-oh..I'm going to do this..I'm taking her and that's that.

Told her a playful, sneaky-sounding "Ha-ley" when her hand was on me, as if to say, I'm not uninterested and get your message, but we can't do this. Sister will kill me. It is true, though. From early on, I always thought that girl would become a gorgeous woman, and she has. Of all of my niece's friends, other than one who was always "the beautiful one", and still is, I had Haley pegged for hotness in time. Had my eyes on her for a long time.

As time goes on, I'm thinking more along the lines of "Why not?", as she doesn't see my niece or sister (the girls are now in college or working, so, have basically gone their separate ways) often if at all, is of drinking age, and hotter than ever. I can go for her and no one would know.

Put it out of your mind..One of my niece's long-time friends, "Haley" (name change) was always very open and flirty with me, sometimes all over me, and, I had many thoughts of having at her, and more than one opportunity.

She lived fairly close to me, and, one sweltering Summer afternoon, I was at my sister's house as Haley and others were there, on the deck, in way-sexy bikinis. Was tough for me to not look a thousand times. As I was finishing up fixing a kitchen light, she asked if I could take her home. I'm looking at her lanky, fit body, long, jet-black hair, and beautiful face, thinking..My home or yours?

I agreed, and Haley threw her shirt and shorts on, hugging me thank you. We were leaving, and my suspicious sister, only part-jokingly said to me "Just remember..She's only 18..", as if also saying, you're going to be alone with this hot, young girl in a bikini in your car..Don't be stupid.

We get in my car, and, on a back road, boom..Off comes Haley's shirt. Tiny, black bikini top, so-hot body, hair down, high-cheekboned face leaning back and sunning herself as I drove..My mind was flying with "for god sakes, just do it". I thought about after-bullshit, knowing my niece and sister would find out, and just didn't want to deal with the fallout. Would I have loved to throw that girl down and have at her? YES.. But decided to do the better decision and say no.

Yet again another old man chasing a 19 yr old girl must be implanted at birth in males

She caught u perving on her in the shower. The only decent thing you can do is leave her alone and if she initiates contact with u just apologise.
Dont do anything like that again or u could fuck up your whole life. Its not worth it just to see a naked woman

Whatever chance you might've had with her (probably none, but you never know!) , you've blown with your clumsy and creepy 'courtship' attempts.

she obviously wasn't interested from the start and she's probably very weirded out about her friends father hitting on her. apologize, but move on because you're not going to be content with just being a friend and will most likely make the same mistake again.

I disagree with all the detractors.
You should peruse this. But you did it wrong. Either you should have gotten in the shower with her OR when she came out in the rob you should have gone and put a rob on too.

But you can still save this... DONT start in on love or new bengings.
Instead, offer more of a sugar daddy type thing.

Tell her you just want her to hang out with you (naked of course). You know, for art. And you'll help her with expenses.
Be cool, take it slow. Then one day while she's there, naked, watching tv
Pull out your dong and stroke off, let her see you but don't make it weird.

She gets herself off too, what you gotta do is get her comfortable getting off at your place

That's called lust, not love. Regardless of how you feel the relationship is not meant to be. Period.

I think it's pretty normal to have crushes, even with age differences, but it wasn't alright to walk in on her when she was showering or to try to look up her robe. Looking at somebody naked or trying to see more of their body without their consent isn't right.

I don't know if she was ever into you or not, it sounds like you may have gotten mixed signals.

In any event this was a terrible idea, you should not try to date the friends of your kids it causes too many problems and risks screwing up the relationship you have between you and your kids.

I was literally JUST thinking that, lol.

I'm not gonna read all that it looks like too much effort.

The end was interesting.

NO teenage female takes a shower in the middle of the day for no apparent reason and puts on just a robe open on the top so he can see her cleavage and some tits with no panties and no bra and sits next to her friend's Dad on the couch , unless she wants to get fucked or eaten out.
Or she could just be being a cock teaser and staring at your crotch to see if you were sporting wood.
Is her twat bald ?
Did you ask her if she has ever seen a naked cock before and if she would like to see yours and feel yours inside her cunt , ass and mouth ?